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Is he interested in friendship or something more?
04-29-2014, 07:45 AM
Post: #1
Is he interested in friendship or something more?
My friend kind of brought up the topic and asked if I liked him. I admitted that I didn't like him and that we're just friends. It's the truth! She then mentioned that sometimes friends end up becoming more than friends. We're about 3 years apart. He's 18 and I'm 15. We met while playing speed dating at our youth group. Since then we've been talking. He knows my brother and friend. Every time I see him we talk until he has to go do something. Over the summer there was no youth group so we talked over Facebook. He used to sit next to me all the time. I would walk over and sit down and wait for my friend and the youth pastor to get ready and he would come over and sit down right next to me. He doesn't anymore because he has to work the sound stuff. The first week he was working it he did, but I'm guessing he got in trouble or something because he hasn't done it since.
I want to say he's just being really friendly, but I'm not sure. I mean like I've definitely seen him talk to other people in all, but there are times when he comes in, hangs up his coat and we talk until he has to work on sound stuff. My friend brings my brother and I so when youth group is done we may hang around for a minute or so then leave. We never stay very long afterwards. He definitely has other female friends in all.
My brother used to not go, ha ha such bad English. Any way, even if he did want to ask me out or something like that I highly doubt he would since my brother likes to hang around me a lot while we're there. So it would be supper awkward.
I do find that our conversations die off sometimes, but like any normal human being we pick them back and start talking about something else.
The last week I saw him we kind of came to a dead end in a conversation and he asked if I had ever met one of the youth leaders. We were going to met her when another one of the teens came up and said there was someone new and asked him to talk to him or something. He kind of invited me along, but I felt uncomfortable so I just went to my friend.
I was told before that it could be something more, but to just wait and see what happens.
What do you think? Is he just being a friend?

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04-29-2014, 07:55 AM
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It's really hard to tell... It sounds like he's just being a friend. He might still hope that someday it could developing into something more, but it sounds like he's respecting your boundaries and just being friendly.

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