Could I still be in her interest list?

[Curious Developer]

It has been more than 15 days since the last time I met her/got her reply on facebook, so just felt like sharing my updated story so far This could be long but all the info is necessary, so please be patient and read

But anyway I will brief the events here -

- we go the same gym, she joined later around 8-9 months back - I used to look at her sometimes (not stare just notice), we also bumped into same machine - actually broke ice after around 2-3 months, she asked me something after I looked at her. See details in this earlier question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...138AArMbem

Then I started saying Hi whenever our eyes met, she too responded with a smile everytime - I found her profile on facebook and sent her a friend request (she had only told her first name when I asked, I saw her full name from her gym card - our gym cards would be together during workout ). She accepted.
Actually chatted on facebook only when I wished her with a message on her birthday. See details in this question http://in.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind...111AAsQIBW

Meanwhile, she also used to talk with another guy at the gym, whom she met at the gym. I have seen them chatting after workout at the parking area of the gym. I used to pass by acting indifferent to them, Never spoke with that guy and with her when she was with her.

Then met during new year day at gym, asked her how was her 31st? She said nothing much, was with family. She asked me about mine, and whether I stayed with my parents. i asked her the same etc. Then met again at that weight measurement section the same day and as I was looking at her she asked me where did I stay, I answered and asked her the same.

Then comes Valentine's day, and she sent me a facebook invite to a salsa workshop scheduled for V-day eve at the dance academy where she goes (she is a full time performing artist by the way) along with another invite.post V-day for a dance/drama performance. She sent the invitatons on 13th. I did not go for the salsa workshop but thanked her via facebook message for the invitations. She responded yes for my query whether she was going to perform. I then messaged that I will definitely be there for her performance and would have loved to come for the salsa workshop, but could not come because I was stuck in office (she sent the invitation hardly 4 hours before on the day) but said to let me know next time.
I then went for the dance/drama performance, alone. There was the other gym guy whom she had invited (I checked in the facebook event, she had hardly invited 4 guys including us and we two showed up, and the total set of facebook invitees was around 1500 and actually around 50 people came on the day).

After the dance/drama finished, she came down from stage, talked to her father, and the other guy and some other people. She did not look at me directly. After some time, I went near and said Hi and then she came to talk to me, thanked me for coming, I said, it was my pleasure with a smile.. and appreciated her performance (it was actually great), all I could say was "I don't know what to say, I have no words.. it was great" she was smiling too and said "oh was it that good?" and then said she will invite me to an upcoming dance festival/workshop. We chatted for around 5 mins and then left.

So, that was the last time we met and no facebook chats after that. It shows she has not yet viewed my last two messages yet (where I said why I could not come for the salsa workshop). We have not exchanged numbers yet.

I also did not see that other guy come to gym since long time (last time seen before new year). So, one day when I searched the card stack (where the gym members keep their cards - there are two separate card sections for men and women and both sorted alphabets for surname initials). Strangely, I found her card in the gents section where that other guys card is supposed to be and his card was not there. That is a suspense

The close friends whom I told all this about, told that she could be interested in me as well. And everybody said that I am acting very slow, so she might go away (it has been 8-9 months since we met) and we never dated, no phone numbers exchanged. So, your opinions please..

[Wascally Wabbit]

Just ask her out.. If she says yes, than you're golden. If she says no, than no harm done.