I Like My Friend...?

[tyber]

This girl that goes to my school randomly added me on Facebook in December and has been talking to me pretty much non-stop. She always mentions how she doesn't have a boyfriend and hates how people go for looks over personality. However, with that said she told me that I'm not attractive enough to/for her so she wont date me but she also said she loves talking to me/hanging out and thinks I have an awesome personality. Now, I'm not like super crazy about this girl but I do kind of like her a little bit and I'm afraid that if I keep talking to her and hanging around her I'm going to really start to like her and just end up hurting myself in the end. She seems to think that wont happen because it hasn't with her other guy friends.

She has also mentioned that in the past she's had no attraction to friends but over time from really getting to know them and hanging out, she has very rarely developed feelings for them so I shouldnt count on it but it's possible. The thing is though, do I keep talking to her and risk me just liking her more while she still views me as undatable or is it worth the "risk" to hope things change? On the off chance she ends up with someone else (She's never had a boyfriend before and sometimes doubts herself), I'd probably get hurt/jealous too. She's always said it's her dream to have her boyfriend be a friend first. Any advice?

I cant really just cut her off. I don't really want to either, neither one of us really has that many friends.

[Chris Sellick]

You're wasting time with her.She's friendzoned you for life.Move on and find a girl who does want to be with you.You're missing out on the right girls for you because you're devoted to that girl.

[CD]

I think you can stop talking to her for a bit and see her reaction. I am a girl and it sometimes does take some space for me to realize if I like the person. I did happen to me that a guy friend was very close to me but I never thought I liked him until one day he disappeared on me and did not contact me as he usually does. The space there made me realize that I missed him. You can try that and in the meanwhile think about if you really would like to continue to talk to her if she does not like you back.