My boyfriend has been snooping?

[698]

I mean, I have gone through my boyfriends phone before with PERMISSION while he was there. Last night I found out that awhile ago he saw me typing my password & has been going in my Facebook ever since even when we had broken up for a couple of days. We've been together for a year & a month.. Should I be upset or let it go since I've gone through his?

Btw: I had nothing bad in my FB or phone.

[Jenn]

If you have nothing bad to hide from him, then why get upset with it? A relationship is nothing without trust! Always be open with each other. Maybe talk to him about it and perhaps you both can come to an agreement that if he wants to check up on you, then that's fine as long as you are able to check up on him.

[DavidSr]

To me that involves a Trust issue more than any thing else. He didn't ask for permission to do this. You could let it go since you have nothing to hide or you could change your password and explain to him he never ask you if it was alright for him to do this. It really is your choice.

[Mark]

Well it seems to me that your boyfriend really cares about you. Maybe he did cross the line a little bit, but if he didn't care about you he wouldn't have snooped. Ive been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years and I am in college. In the beginning I would sometimes log into her faceook just to be sure (been cheated on) and everytime a guy would hit on her she would tell him she has a boyfriend she loves. Its almost been two years and I trust her 100%, theres no doubt in my mind that she wouldn't cheat on me. He loves you and you just need to ask him why he did it. Dont make i lt to much of a deal because when you get serious your business is their business. My gf and I have each others fb passwords, and we don't have a problem with one another using/just going through each others phone. I know how you feel but just try to work on the trust and communication in your relationship, and it will go far! Best of luck dear!

[menykats]

You said that "awhile ago he saw me typing my password & has been going in my Facebook ever since". That makes no sense. It didn't happen quite that way; it's not possible. How would he able he do that? Even if he was looking over your shoulder, when you type in your password, all that shows up on the screen are a series of "dots" -- representing the letters & numbers in your password. That's why a password appears as a series of "dots"; to keep someone standing near you from reading your password while you are typing it in.
You had previously told him yourself what that password was, and now you regret doing so. Change your password, and don't tell him what the new one is.

[melissa]

I think you should tell him that it bothers you but let him know if he is concerned or worried that he can talk to you about it. If he knows that you feel like he's all up in your business andehe can tell you have nothing to hide, he should respect your boundaries. Just communicate!