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How can i regain a friendship with someone who found out my crush and now is ignoring me, bc she's annoyed?
05-01-2014, 03:06 AM
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How can i regain a friendship with someone who found out my crush and now is ignoring me, bc she's annoyed?
ok one day at a cleaning i met a girl there, and became friends with her unusually fast, and then later she started messaging me on instagram. We began chatting as friends, then i asked her to do me favor for me to become better friends with a girl i like who is in her socail group. And, she asked me do i like this girl? Being that i thought we reached that kind of personal friendship, i proceeded to just say, Yes I do like this girl whom she hangs out with. And she replied sorry i can get personal. And after further Qs from her about my crush i thought she was interested in my life, so i kept talking about my crush a lot....... but after a few more questions from me about my crush, she said , ok stop talking about her your annoying she'll be your friend if she wants to. and then she ignored me for a week and said im over it now you were just being annoying ( me) And then i said ok sorry i wont talk about my crush anymore i will stop being annoying, after saying that she just removed me from instagram and now isnt talking to me so i lost that friendship....... what should i DO?! and this former friend is now afraid of my presence whenever she sees me and quickly walks away with bulging eyes and shocked face staring down at her feet... Can someone please help me out with my delema? I am still going to be friendly with her, bc that is just who i am, but it does feel awkward having her ignoring me! :'(

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05-01-2014, 03:09 AM
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What it sounds like, is that the girl you quickly became friends with, was hoping for more. More then likely, she had a crush or interest of some sort, and found it upsetting that you were actually interest din her friend instead of her. The fact that she asked a bunch of questions about it, then got angry and annoyed after, even further points towards her liking you.

As far as what you can do, there is not a whole lot. If you are not interested in her, and she still likes you, there is always going to be some feelings of disappointment. Your best bet is to pull her aside and talk to her one on one. Ask her if you did something wrong? Let her know that the fact that you feel you lost a friend is upsetting. Hopefully she will open up and let you know whats wrong so you two can remain friends.

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05-01-2014, 03:24 AM
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maybe she is envious of your crush on her. maybe she likes you. she needs time to let the idea you dont like her as much as she hoped settle in her mind. i would wait it out, or talk to her a bit.
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