What to do with my crush?!?! Help!!!?

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So I'm 16 and I've never had a relationship. I would love to have one though. I like a girl named grace. She's a year younger then me but we don't really talk. What should I do? How do I do it? I'm really shy and how do I overcome my shyness? Thanks!

[Yoshiflame1]

AS for your shyness, just start things slow. Slowly build your way up. Start with light conversation, perhaps about her day. Once you feel comfortable there, go up a notch. Try getting to know HER, as in her interests, etc. Then when you feel comfortable enough, ask her to hang out sometime. Hope this helps, and good luck!!

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[Jessie]

The sad truth is that overcoming your shyness is super hard. I know this from personal experience. But like what my other friends do they take a risk and say hi because its better to try than to not try at all and wonder. If your super shy just say hi or compliment her outfit or something or even smile at her when you guys make eye contact. Things as simple as that can be a great start

[Melody Alice ♥]

Get to know her, talk to her, ask for her number.
You need to become friends before just flat out trying to date her, dude.
Ain't that hard.
Soo, if you're shy, trying getting a friend or somethang to tell her you like her.
That usually always works
Try it
Stay koo, bruh

[Alejandro]

Wow, i thought i wrote that question for a sec! I have the same issue, bu let me tell you something, not doing anything is something u will regret for the rest of you life. Talk to her! Do not attempt to be like the very friendly guy, cause u will end up in friend zone. Go ahead, flirt with her, overcome your fears. Not doing anything will not get her. Be honest by the way, let her know ur intentions, but smoothly, do not be that creepy guy. What should u do? first, talk to her! how? overcome your fear, start a nice conversation, do not think that she will like you by talking o her one time. How do you overcome your shyness? dude just yolo haha do not over think it, but think that u have nothing to loose, u dont gain if u dont try... good luck, and do not mke the same mistakes i have done!

[Rexy Farang]

I told ya. Since you are a guy,you had the advantage you know. If you know the right way to do it, you can get absolutely any girl.

add her on fb, find oppourtunities to talk to her. Be there for her when she is sad. Basically just be her friend you know. Just make her feel comfortable being with you. If she feel comfortable with you around like if she trust you and would confide with you.

After that you can take the next step, ask her out, let her know that you are interested in her

[Clair]

The first assignment is to 1. Notice any similarities and common ground you share with Grace. Find out is she in any of your classes, groups, clubs, neighborhoods, foods, basically anything that can be easily discovered from what you already know about her.

Once you know a little more about what you may have in common with her then you may feel more comfortable to use this information as a way to approach her and start a conversation. The only reserve you have about talking to her is that you lack subject matter and it's not because you lack the ability to talk to her. You obviously have the desire but now you have to feed the desire with content (things to talk about).

Being a good observer takes only 30 seconds or even faster to find similarities in anyone so that you can have something to talk about. Not having anything to talk about is the breeding ground for shyness and awkwardly weird approaches and stumbles.

You need to know a few similarities about her and just because she is a girl doesn't decrease the chance of finding them, trust me all humans do the same things and have a lot in common. Similarities include: eat, sleep, play, music, laugh, cry, hope, fear, thrive, survive, food, books, movies, TV, crushes, relationships, friends, thoughts, persons, places, and things.

You find similarities about Grace, use a natural tonality, practice talking to Grace in a mirror and realize that when you talk to someone who does 99% of the same things you do everyday you're actually looking in the mirror of life. Now you will be able to find the fuel to talk to Grace. Have fun.