I am gay and i want tell a straight guy which a really lov en fb if he loves me , hos should i do this?

[766]

I wanr to write him on fb that i love him what technique should i use how or in what way should i ask him.

[S]

let me see if I understand.

You are gay and you want to write to a straight man on facebook and tell him you're in love with him? Are you hoping he'll hit you or just move to another city?

[mixolydian100]

Don't do it. Trust me, you'll regret it later.

If you know for sure he's straight, give it up. If you really must tell him, do so in person.

[Nn]

dude what the hell is wrong with you. Read what you just wrote, your gay and he is straight think about what he is going to say. Also you can't make someone gay if they aren't or if they don;t want to be. All gays are a like they isolate them self from everyone else

[Vortex]

Since he is straight you can save yourself a lot of embarrassment and a possible beating buy not asking him. To ask him of FB would make it look like he is gay and he would either have to avoid you, beat the crap out of you or kill you so no one believes that. It is not that being gay is bad it is just that a straight guy would take offense at being asked in a public form. I suggest you find a gay guy to love and forget about this guy. Good Luck!

[Tony]

I have had "personal" experiences with this (I'm straight). Please don't do it. You will regret it and he will either take offence to it (because some guys are like that) or he will try to avoid you at all costs. I advise you (for you and for him) not to do it. If you know he's straight telling him you love him won't make anything better.

[Mommy2b]

?WHY. Why would you do that? There is no point except to cause drama. As you eloquently pointed out & are aware of- Straight Man- would be the operative and oh so important answer to your question.
Not only are you going to alienate him and probably remove him from your life, but if you in fact Love him- ?why would you event consider causing him that kind of turmoil when you know, he's Straight & Does not love you back in That Way? That's just selfish. Every thought or feeling we have, doesn't have to be "shared". Particularly, when sharing it, will create a possible hardship for someone else.
If you hope he will profess his undying mutual affection, you are mistaken. If you think, he's really homosexual & this might spark the flame for acknowledging that- It Will Not.
It's fine, that you feel Love for this person. Now, file it in your "personal" file, and keep it to yourself.
Straight men, A LOT of them, would be inctedibly uncomfortable with this revelation- publuc-FB- or otherwise. Please, keep your feelings private where you enjoy them & they don't cause drama for this man. My answer would be the same, regardless of sexual orientation- It's just more ardently applied in this specific case. Imagine his mother sees a proclamation that his gay friend is in love with her straight son- or his girlfriend, wife, best dude friend- It's Uncomfortable, Private, and inappropriate. I would take issue with ANYONE proclaiming their Revelation Of Undying Love for me on Facebook!! ?if you can't say it to their face in private....do not say it at all. You are making a public statement & choice for this man without his input or approval- you are taking away his ability to NOT participate.
IF, you Love this person, you won't proclaim it on Facebook nor any other for of Internet Communicatipn, Social Media, or
Electronic transfer. If you Love him- you call him privately if you are just Unable to NOT share. Don't cause this man trauma, you alreasy know he bats for the other team- you are not doing it for reciprocity- you would be doing it to showboat. That's not love dude. Love means NOT embarrassing the one you love. A gay BFF "proclaimed" his undying love for my boyfriend of 5 years, publicly. It was horrible. My guy & my gay were never able to look at each other again. My gay wanted to kiss him, and my guy wanted to punch him. (So there went my bliss.) It accomplishes nothing, and you will be rejected- publicly. If you DO Love him...You do not want to cross that boundary and cause him embarrassment & discomfort.