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I have a crush on a girl friend and I'm a girl too.?
05-02-2014, 09:36 AM
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I have a crush on a girl friend and I'm a girl too.?
there's this girl who i've been friends with for a year from school. we've had a lot of classes together but this semester we don't have any classes. however, i still see her every week at least twice or three times. she occasionally texts me that she misses me. but saturday while she was at work she texted me "Miss you <3" but I LITERALLY JUST saw her the day before and the one before that too...so how can I be missed already? it just seems overly friendly. it's kind of confusing me because not even my really close friends tell me they miss me as much as she does.

and on valentines day she texted me "Happy valentines day" with a bunch of emoticons which she sent out to other friends too but when i replied back she ended up screenshotting my text message and uploading it on her instagram with a caption that read "<3 she made my day #loveofmylife" and this is before she uploaded anything about her and her boyfriend on v-day.

when we went out on st.pattys day i caught her staring at me through the corner of my eye for like 4 seconds. so when i looked toward her, we made quick eye contact. i smirked at her and she smiled and looked away. it caught my attention, at that moment. she would also often say to me "you're cute" in a friendly way. and one time she even took a picture of me just because she thought i looked really cute and then uploaded it on to her instagram.
she knows that i'm bisexual. but i have a hunch she might be curious but isn't necessarily willing to act on it. but she has stated once that she feels like all girls are bicurious and she's also kissed her bestfriend before.

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05-02-2014, 09:52 AM
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If you have a crush on her, it is absolutley normal. Kinda like bromance, but the girl version. I'm pretty sure you would'nt be gay or anything but you just have a girl crush on her which as i said, is normal.

If your implying she may have a crush on you, then honestly, idk. You mentioned she has a boyfriend? Well, right now it just seems like your very good friends. Girls act like this to their friends. The girlier the more they act this way. I sometimes text my bff "Luv ya girlfriend! <3" Its not like i'm gay or anything, and shes not my girlfriend, i just want her to know i'm fond of her. But... Maybe, just maybe, she may have a crush on you. You did mention she puts your pics on insta...? I think you should observe her actions carefully. No, not in a stalkerish way, just in a curious way. See how she acts with her other friends. Does she do the same things she does to you, to them? If not, there may be a chance that she may think of you as her best friend or have a girl crush on you.

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05-02-2014, 10:05 AM
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She most likely doesn't like you because of the boyfriend. Try having a deep conversation with her then lead up to your questions you've always wanted to hear.
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