My ex and I broke up Jan 9 2014... We were together 5 yrs ....?

[765]

He asked me to come get him march 24 2014..... I did and it lasted 12 days I did all I could he was emotionally cold and distant... I begged him not to leave but he did... He has new gf... Fast fwd to this week he called said it's you always been you said he wanted to talk so I met up with him we talked he said he needs time and understanding ... Also said I need to let him love me the way he loves me no idea what that means, now he has blocked me on fb.... What is this and how does he need time if he's with another woman???? I am emotionally bankrupt over this it's just I don't understand, yes we had sex too that day and I feel bad bcus I'm not really that type of woman.... I love him so my ???? Is what do I do??????

[anonymous]

I would wait. Let this tension simmer and calm down, and you will know what to do when the time arises. Personally, I would let him go for now and give it time. You will know when the right time to do something is.

[Nisia]

That guys is a bi7ch. I am really sorry that he is part of our gentlemen society and just a piece of meat between his legs makes him part of our club. Stay way from him so you don't get hurt anymore. Dat son of a... b... I'd kick his ass if I had a chance...

[AbigailAbigail]

When it comes to ex boyfriends...
1.You musnt repeat the same mistakes you made in the first relationship.
2. You musn't have sex with them.
3. You musn't try to start from the old relationship, that relationship is "dead" you must start a better and new relationship.
4. You musn't bring up the negatives memory of your old relationship. For instance this is by begging and pleading [trying to convince him that you will change] thats being desperate and needy. No man wants a bitch who will be the easiest human being to walk all over
Also
What he meant was you dont let him be, just let him be just let him love you how he wants to love you.

This is what I can tell you to do... Move on, to get the guy you have to be willing to lose the guy.

You have to be active, focus on you working on bettering yourself

But I bet you wouldnt....

email me if you need anymore help @Abigailjaiy@hotmail.co.uk

[Claire C]

okay..we women are full of love and forgiveness.this is how we are made to be.the best thing to do is take a step back.erase all his data from your phone,laptop etc.you dont want to be reminded of him.he is just using you as a cushion to fall back on.dont let him do this to you.we are the ones who give men the chance to treat us like second rate citizens.have some pride and walk away from such a person.you were not born to be used by a lout like him.just back off.he will continue to use you whenever he wants.i know itz hard but that is the only solution.be strong!
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