Capricorns play mind games ?

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I am a libra female who has been seeing a capricorn male who's 1yr older than I am (I'm 21 so he's 22) we have been talking since I was a sophomore in high school I'm now a jr in college we started off as friends then almost a year later we had sex now I loved him from day one and he did as well but I did not know until years later which was about 2 1/2 weeks ago now throughout this entire six years I'll say me and him were very shy towards each other he is a Capricorn male but we always connected like we always had this bond but up until two weeks ago neither me or him knew how each other felt About one another but the last time before two weeks ago that we talked was in September but that was when I started dating my ex-boyfriend I started to date my ex-boyfriend because I had always felt that He never really cared much about me and he never expressed anything so I took it as he did not care for me as I cared for him and left, he the. saw a photo that I posted on Insta and text me telling me that he misses me and that he will always care a bout me but he hope that we could be friends and I told him that I couldnt talk to him anymre because I had a boyfriend and we could not be friends at that time so he said I understand and that was that. Now he hits me up saying Imu and I did todo he tells me he loves me finally ! I say it back and we hung out (no sex) just kiss and hugged , so this last a week now he tells me he has a gf and he wish he would of knew how I felt before ?

[Bubbles]

He's just giving you a dose of your own medicine to let you know that he was hurt by what you did. If you are really serious about this guy, you're going to have to swallow your pride. Meaning taking it as it is, and understanding why he did what he did. You have to never bring up this incident again, and admit that you were in the wrong (not him or he'll ditch you). You have to break up with your boyfriend (piece of cake since this cappy is really worth it).

Give him a dose of his own medicine now (cappy likes a challenge). Post on instagram a picture of you looking your finest, and put a caption saying "newly single, ready to mingle ;P" or some cute one liner like that. DON'T TEXT THE CAPRICORN HE WILL SEE THE IMAGE AND START TEXTING OR CALLING YOU. He will text you just to check up on you, @ the very least to ask you why you didn't come to him first telling him you were single. If he asks you why you didn't tell him of this move, just tell him you didn't want to mess up his relationship & you love him & just want him to be happy. ONLY TELL HIM THAT! If he's just checking up on you tell him you only dated your ex b/c you felt like no one else was into you, tell him he's not the right one for you so there's no sense in you two being involved anymore. ONLY SAY THAT! If he asks you anything more feel free to tell him you care about him and are willing to wait to see if he's available in the future (tell him you're respecting his decision to have a relationship with another woman & remain friends). Tell him you are interested to see if he's really the one for you since he loves you, but you respect his relationship. But don't tell him you will wait for him unless you really mean it, b/c at this point he may be offended enough to test you. If you pursue another man, or get involved with another man at any point during the waiting period he will ditch you without a word. No more friendship.

Basically ditch your man, surprise him by posting an image of you all beautiful (it really has to be something new/special so try hard youtube makeup/hair tutorials if you can't go to a salon or something) on instagram, make it known you are single, when he texts you play it cool admit your wrong, tell him what you're going to do - wait for him whatevs.

Best of luck!

He does really love you, and he'll ditch this girl for you, but you've gotta move fast if you want your man. Once cappy has made a decision on his girl he goes for it, but he doesn't wait around forever. And he doesn't take rejection lightly. He takes forever in the beginning to win him, but you've clearly had years to do that. Sounds to me like you didn't flirt with him enough, or there were always other prospects or men. since he was friend zoned you could have vented your relationship frustrations. that's confusing to a guy, b/c he's afraid to approach you especially cappy. try to be patient and understanding of this guy. and don't feel bitter about him being with another girl, honestly you can take it, and you know his game, so play it with him, and win your man. you should be happy this problem is easily solvable.

[Boss]

There more down to earth.

[Cameron]

DO NOT LISTEN TO THE IDIOT AT THE TOP. I am a capricorn, and posting a pic of yourself looking fab and putting that corny predictable caption will only make him laugh at you, more than likely mock you to who ever is around him at the time.