How do you Remove Events from your Facebook Page? (10.08.12)?

[Anthony]

Dear, people of YahooAnswers!, either give me an answer or don't write me. You're not going to convince me that it's awesome to have your personal info out there. You're not going to help me by calling me paranoid. If you can help with an actual answer I would REALLY appreciate it, but if you're going to offer useless advice, give it to someone else please.

Anyway, so I just discovered someone who isn't even friends with me can click on an icon called events. And every event I've ever been invited to shows up.
The problem with that is some friends have invited me to events at my own house.
All it takes is to be invited.
I told friends to delete the events and they just call me paranoid. It's all right there. Someone could easily look up the address and they'll find an online phonebook with my name & phone number.

Another issue I'm having is a few friends have tagged me in a photos at a certain locations. The locations show up on a map on my profile, which is weird. It's available to anyone whose friends with me. It's not as big of a deal because only friends can see it, but it's still annoying.

Anyway, any help would be really awesome, thanks.
When I go to past events I've been invited to my only options are "Join" or "Maybe"

[buster crabs]

You usually just say that you can not go to event so then it should take it off of your facebook because it will think you can not attend.