If its not love then what?

[Neo]

She was my batch mate in college.I silently loved her but never proposed. I was busy in making myself perfect for her as she was outstanding in every sphere. I improved myself and got opportunity for higher studies. After two-three years I found her in ORKUT social networking site and tried to make friendship with her and express my feelings. In due process I expressed my feelings for in messages and requested for a meeting. Idea failed completely. We could neither become friends nor lovers. Ultimately she got married to another man. Even after four years of her marriage I too got married to an amazing girl of my life. Within two years of married life we could create special bond between we two and share wonderful chemistry. But in another part I could not forget that female. Due to work condition I needed to maintain a distance relation with my spouse. In this time I missed that girl also like hell.
And found she is following me in Facebook. I was amazed but felt bit pity that after so long she had shown any considerations for me. But I thought to maintain a friendship with her so accepted friendship. Even then found she has shared some of her beautiful pics to me in google+.
But when my spouse uploaded our pic and I liked it, I think she got jealous adversely and started uploading so many pics of her with her spouse, means like flash flooding.
I got disappointed for her. But then started paying more attention to her and she conveyed me that by her action that she got married because of her family wish.
I could not control myself and started teasing her, praising her but she always urge me to say more that what usually say to her.
She never shared words to me but whenever I tease her or flirt with her..only in messages..her no of likes increased...and when I don't send any message for a day or two...no likes..no comments.

When I ask anything she will give answer by uploading snaps or liking similar words from anywhere but never shared any thing with me.

Its almost six months over. Only I send messages and get answer through her likes and uploaded snaps. I asked her to meet me.Even I said if interested in meeting me then indicate me by changing your profile pic with your spouse. She changed it.
Now I was confirmed that she has grown deep feelings for me.

I Love my wife and I also care for her. She never say anything to me but I feel pain for her.
Even I really don't know how she might have felt because my little angel ( my daughter) shares her nick name.

She has been my inspiration. I deeply loved her. Even I never had any negative feelings for her.
I have asked her to maintain a good friendship because we both are married and we have present responsibilities.When I shared these words..she shown her happiness with many likes.

I asked her to share words to me but I really don't know why but could not share words to me.
Presently she is in abroad. I have planned to meet her once she comes down to my place.
Even I had asked her if I go to her place? She did not like my idea.

I share my day to day activities with her. I strongly criticize her for wrong doings. She only listen to me..I mean read but never answer by words.
And we both are happy with it. I think once we meet she will start sharing words to me.
Now she does not feel jealous so much even when I talk about my wife.
Actually we both do not share picture with our spouse.


It was my mistake that I didn't tell her about my feelings to her in college itself.
But she did the mistake by not giving me the chance to correct myself.

Now, we are in such condition when both realized love for each other but we are married.
My relation with her is never ****** one but sometime I feel such kind of vibes and sure she too feels same way...

Forgetting her is not possible for me and being together is also uncertain but still we want to be in touch...

I just want your comment...
will it be fruitful relationship?

I feel happy to realise that she get happiness because of me...and its amazing to realise.

[Akhi]

Might be,,,, all the best. stay happy

[Glecy]

No matter what feelings you both shared with each other, it still isn't healthy. you are both married and you should also think of the consequences that might arise with what you two were doing. Are your feelings for each other weigh more than your love for your wife and your child? You cannot be in two places at the same time.

[lady]

You are married. Block and delete this woman and forget about her. Your wife deserves better than this and this woman's husband deserves your respect. Friendship just isn't possible with her at all. No regrets. Stop looking at what you can't have and focus on what you do have- your own family. Your wife's love for you is going to waste if you aren't honouring it. The old flame will just have to remain a memory. Please please block and delete. Don't hurt your family.

[Mark]

Your married, it's suppost to mean something.

[DK]

if you wish to have a friendship with her,its healthy! but you seem to like her more than a friend so stop it before it ruins the life of both your families!! you have a happy life so just let it be....just imagine what if she leaves u again for some random guy whom she had a crush on??!! so my humble suggestion to you my friend,live your life as it is,don't flirt with her,you hv a lovely wife and a daughter,njoy with them,coz life is all about moving on...all the best