Should I ask my ex best friend to be friends again?

[Michelle m]

I had a best friend in high school, and we have been friends for 4 years (since freshmen year). We were like brother/sister, we had a lot in common; it was pretty much the friendship that anyone could wish for. But it went downhill senior year, I told him i liked him, and he liked me too, we started to have romantic like "relations". But after that, he became more distant of me. But one day, I saw him with flowers, for junior/senior banquet was coming up, but from the my friend, he wasn't going to ask me. But knowing of my feelings, he asked another girl to junior/senior (it's upsetting because one, she doesn't even like him!), and I wanted to go with him, knowing we may not see each other for a long time. I was so angry with him, because he hurt me so bad, KNOWING I liked him, I ended our friendship, for I couldn't take being heart broken by him for so long. I deleted his number off of my phone and unfriended him to any social site that we were friends on. After the graduation party our class had, I never spoke or saw him again, and it has been about 10 months now. I just found out he goes to my college, and I had been having multiple dreams about him, and I couldn't understand why they were happening so often.
But now, I really want to be friends again, for I miss the old friendship that we use to have. We are fb friends again, but I don't know if i should say something or not. Im scared for I don't know if he wants to talk to me, or misses me. Any thoughts? Thanks alot!

[Yobergo]

This is a tricky one. Personally I probably wouldn't try to rekindle that friendship if 1) he basically used you and pushed you aside once he got what he wanted, 2) if he never made an effort to reconcile/apologize/make-up, 3) he never communicated or gave you an explanation of why. I mean really if any of those sound like your situation then he had no respect for you, he couldn't care if you were or weren't friends, and he had no awareness or caring for you personally. Let me ask you what kind of friend is that? Sounds like a jerk to me. Then again your call, but remember there's a reason you aren't friends with him anymore---- REMEMBER!!! Sometimes although we miss what was once there it was the past, you can't go back. It'll be different and you just may end up disappointed or reminded of your prior choice.