Is he emotionally torturing me on purpose?

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There is this guy who goes to college with me. We never really talked before until yesterday when we went on a trip along with other people. Then, last night right after I got home I noticed that he was online on fb so I sent him a "hi". He replied immdiately and we started casually talking. Then, he began flirting with me in such a shameless obvious way. I was thrilled because I already had a tiny crush on him and he's cute so it was all perfect. But then suddenly he went offline and left the chat. Didn't go back at all to fb. It's morning now and I still haven't heard from him. I feel so embarrassed tbh. Do you think he's doing this on purpose ? You know, trying to get me attached then just disappearing into thin air like a player. And I can't even see him at school until after two weeks :/ I know it's too early to predict, maybe his internet was acting up or whatever, but ugh, I just keep thinking about him!

Any advice ?

[Gina]

Well, you can't really say anything for sure as it's too early. Maybe when you meet him at school, be casual yet friendly and see how he acts. If he continues teasing you, he's probably just teasing you, and if he keeps doing what he did on fb, then either he's playing hard to get, or he's a player(first one is more likely).

[â™ Merlin â™]

i think is a huge over stretch to say after one day he is emotionally torturing you intentionally
he will be in no way nearly as attached as you have become in 24 hours

anything could have happened
and he probably doesnt realise he has to answer to you and justify after such a short time
relax, or he will run

[James]

It's too early to say. Give it a bit longer. Don't over think things

Answer mine?

[Tina]

yes, I think so.

[Mary Anne]

Well, I think that if you're already having all these doubts you should try to be careful with him. Try to make yourself busy and distract youself with other things so that you don't go crazy thinking about all the millions of possibilities that could have happened when he went offline. Maybe he just fell asleep. My advice is: don't speak to him until he speaks to you, so that you don't seem desperate, guys hate that. Wait until he says something to you instead and you'll feel better about it. If doesn't, then try to move on! Good luck

[Jo]

Why the heck are you embarrassed? Why the heck do you even think "emotional torture"? For "emotional torture" - one needs an emotional base to start with. Chatting on Facebook does not make an emotional base - except for silly girls.

I doubt this guy chatted with you for awhile - then thought "I'll just go offline to drive her nuts".

So he went offline. There could be 57 reasons - none of which has to do with you personally.

[Aleah]

Maybe he likes you in some way, but that`s how he can show it. Wait, time will show if he likes you or if he`s stupid)