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Female Friend Has A Boyfriend But Wants Me?
05-04-2014, 06:00 AM
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Female Friend Has A Boyfriend But Wants Me?
We`ve been friends 6 years. She`s in a happy relationship of 4years. She's friendly and can be touchy at times. A Month ago I was at the school gym working out and She waiting outside and she blew me kisses and texts "your so cute".

That night I text her and said "your the best friend I could ever had and I know guys don't like hearing this but I had to tell youSmile." We were at the mall a few weeks back and had us take a picture together.

Every time I post a ,photo or status she likes it. She also asks often about my love life.I posted a photo of myself on instagram last week and she comments "cutie;p"Last week she Imentioned I bought condoms and she mentioned how she uses birth control and that if she was going to cheat she'd use a condom.

Last monday I reposted a pic of us that I accidently deleted and she commented shes hurt I deleted it. I commented I would never delete it and she said good with a bunch of hearts. That week She took a picture of me and put it on
instagram.

Yesterday me, my friend and her hung out. I text her later to make sure I was home she said ya and told me I act differently and more macho around my friend. My friend thinks she wants to hook up with me.

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05-04-2014, 06:10 AM
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I think you should ask her and seems like she does because she is doing a lot of flirting.

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05-04-2014, 06:18 AM
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She wants you
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05-04-2014, 06:23 AM
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I want to warn you since you've been friends for 6 years. If you continue to consider her to be more than a friend you risk losing her. The reason for this is she watching you and knows your better for her than her current boyfriend. Do you want to turn the one you love into the angriest person, she will think you want more than she currently offers you. This in relativity lets her think that the current amount of time she's offered you has not been enough and lets her down. It's always 2 against 1 and be careful that she is not playing a game with you and her current bf . She can do this by destroying both persons but continue to have them want her cause she has the upper hand. I did not see anything about your current girlfriend which tells me your her friend with benefits. She's really manipulative and dude she watches you work out because she likes seeing you in pain. Your not gonna be able to get out of it and shes gonna make you pay for it.
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05-04-2014, 06:33 AM
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Sometimes girls that have boyfriends flirt with other guys just to get an ego boost. They want to feel like "they've still got it" but they don't have any intention of going anywhere with the flirting. A lot of women do this. On the other hand, maybe she does want to hook up with you. But you have to ask yourself, do you want to complicate or potentially ruin this 4 year relationship she is in? You can either A.) keep playing with her just because, B.) try to take it to the next level and hook up with her (and potentially lose her as a friend if it doesn't work out) or C.) ignore it. Ultimately the choice is yours. Personally I can never be just friends with girls because of stuff like this happening. Good luck dude.
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05-04-2014, 06:50 AM
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Can u repost it I&#x27;ll bet u guys r cute
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