How do i make myself stronger?

[856]

Iam an 18 year old girl.Since my childhood i saw a lot of miseries. Fir every little thing i sit crying. I have pcos too my mom says due to my emotional pain iam severly hit by this diesease.I am just too innocent naive and fickle minded. I want to chnage myself. Due to my pcos i have lack of self confidence,proir to this when i was in 9 and 10th std i used to look prettier. I was not that shy in those days life was much awesome. But as soon as i left my achool the problems in my life increased.due to my lack of confidence i have no friends in college. So going college wasn't a fun for me. I was just so shy people use to take advange of me in college. Now i have just appeared for 12th. Results are yet to come. As i had no friends in college the same place was filled with my inline friends. I think iam a fb addict. I have a lot of friends obline from all over the world but not a single friend in real life. These obline pwople became life. But i feel real friends are worth keeping. But i don't have them as college days have gone .I wouldbwish for that one day my life would be much awesome.I would be pcos free and will be able to look prettier like earlier and have good real life friends too. But the question is how do i cure pcos! How do i make myself stronger so that no one uses me for thier own good? I just want to have peacefl life.

[India]

If you want to be stronger you need to stop thinking you need to change yourself. You have to learn to be more confident with yourself, once you have more confidence things will affect you less! Also you could try talking sometimes with friends about things that are bothering you so you can get it off your shoulders to get over it faster. Strength isn't about not letting things bother you, its accepting it and moving on and enjoying life

[Alex]

Aww I suffer from depression and I can say its almost the same pain?

Hun its hard to be strong,
Sometimes a person can make you seem stronger!
Remember that you cant do it alone making through life alone is hard,

When things pop up dont get emotionally attached learn from the mistake or mishap and let it make you stronger its hard and it takes time but I know youll be able to do it

[DIANE]

Hi, you mean polycystic ovaries? Well, its certainly not caused by being miserable. In fact its the other way round. The hormones get bundled up and you end up with extremes of hormones - which is also why some girls get a lot of unwanted hair or put on a lot of weight .

So you cant cure it - you need to see a doctor about it and ask him what can be done. In the meantime, Im sure there must be some PCOS forums online, so check those out too

But PCOS can be managed and you will hopefully then stop feeling so hormonal and upset all the time. No one wants a friend who is continually moaning about life. Smile and the world will smile with you. I wish you the best - but get down to the doctor asap

[404]

well its difficult to say coz i feel the same many times , M an engineer as well as business personality , now 28 year old , i started working when i was 16 year old , The situation who rise the question for you same happens with me , so i tried my best in work , i have hardly 3-4 people in my life , all are genuine , but before some years ago everyone is with me just because of money , respect an help , I am on my own guts with lots of well wisher and prayers.

Solution:

Give much dedication to your work ,
people will identify you from your work
Your work and experience or you can say mastering in subject will help you to find nice people with whom you can chat , discuss and share coffee sometime with secured atmosphere.
Always be ready to participate , contribute in social community which will help you to understand how is the life and how people are surviving or doing best or helping each other with CAUSE.


You need to prove yourself and create your own identity , this and only this will help you to join good league.
thanks for reading .