PLEASE HELP ASAP!!!! Really need help!?

[293]

Me and my boyfriend of one year broke up because of personal reasons between us but we were still talking for about 1 month afterwards. Long story short I got told he liked another girl and I got really jealous and wanted to find out the truth so I got my friend to call him and pretend to be someone else and find out the truth.. This happened three or four time before he found out.. When he found out he got so angry saying I lied to him and all this other stuff (which was all true) I regret making the choices I did, very much!

It's now been 6 days since we've talked because of my choices.. I tried messaging him once saying "hey" one the third day of waiting but he never replied... I hurt him really bad and I just want to make everything okay again!... Should I text him or do you think I should wait?

[worli]

In these kinds of situations, I would say just wait it out for awhile before trying to talk to him. I know it's difficult when you like someone and want to be with them, but you make a mistake and everything seems like it's falling apart. But honestly, trying to talk to him right now will probably make things worse. Give it another week or so and then CALL HIM. If he doesn't answer, leave him a message. Whatever you do however, don't just text him or message him on facebook. That's a totally impersonal way of apologizing/expressing your regret, especially since it seems like a pretty serious issue for the two of you.

Just don't fret about this too much. If things are meant to work out, they'll work out.

[ishwer]

I rather than text or waiting for his reply, you shold go & meet him personally because hat will be more effective. when you talk or discuss with someone face to face it is more effective way of communication. so the things will get clear between you easily. so plz try to meet him & convince him