Lots of GUYS ANSWER PLEASE?

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Does he like me or her? So he talks to her bit Her friendly way never stares at her but I think she likes him and thinks that he likes her as more than friends but all they do Is talk like friends he never flirts but she does but with me we have never talked but he is always staring at me then when I look he looks away a mean I catch he staring a lot in one day always looking at me I like him and think he is good looking and I quite like him we are friends on Fb and we kinda flirted by sending game request wars out to eachother which was cute what do you think GUYS HER OR ME

[James W.]

Guys at times are hard to figure out.

Could you possibly be making dating choices mainly based upon whether someone likes you and you like them? Unfortunately this approach to dating, used by most people, usually leads to a broken heart.

May I suggest that the first question to ask yourself when considering whether or not to date someone is, “Is this person a strong person?” If they’re not, no matter how much you like them, how much they like you, or how “cute” or “hot” they are, - please don’t date them. A strong person has good character (honesty, integrity, trustworthiness), a positive attitude (cheerful, caring, friendly, forgiving, helpful, and respectful), fulfills their responsibilities (for handling pains in a positive way, for always trying to make a good choice, for taking care of themselves, for serving others), puts forth their best effort, and displays self-control (of their body, anger, tongue and money).

My suggestion is that you put in the effort necessary to become a strong person (if you’re not already), forget about this guy unless he’s a strong person, and eventually look for this type of guy (otherwise you are setting yourself up for a broken heart). Unfortunately this type of man is difficult to find – but save yourself the heartache and don’t settle for less.

(Please remember that you eventually want a 50 or 60 year marriage - not a 5 or 10 year marriage.)

Hope this helps!