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I just need her to give me a straight yes or no, if she says no I'll move on but I need advice?
05-06-2014, 02:49 PM
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I just need her to give me a straight yes or no, if she says no I'll move on but I need advice?
Yeah so about a week ago I saw this girl that I hadn't spoken to in about 2 weeks and I felt like I had to tell her straight up and that's what I did

I asked if she still wanted to meet and to say if she didn't but there were no signs that she didn't and she said yes without any hesitation, she seemed happy to see me as well and we chatted and I walked with her back to outside her house

I messaged her on Facebook yesterday asking what day she wanted to meet up and I just said honestly if she didn't then to just say

But I haven't had a reply, it says she hasn't seen the message but she's been active today

I really don't want to give up on her because we get on well and I do actually like this girl but I've not told her, it's weird because she lives like less than 5 minutes away and this is the 3rd time she's said yes she wants to meet up again

It's not even like she's not interested but when comes to Facebook or texting she's really slow

I'm not a needy person either and if she says no to me I'll move on

I just really need her to give me a straight and honest answer, can I get some advice on what I should say to her?

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05-06-2014, 03:04 PM
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You need to stop downplaying it. Act excited to see her. If every time my husband (when we were dating) would say, "Hey, want to see a movie? If you don't, just let me know," it would be annoying because it would make him sound insecure and uninterested.

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05-06-2014, 03:17 PM
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Put on her facebook pages....not in private message.... Hey girl, send me a message I can't wait to meet up with you.

Some thing like that. You never know what problems or things she has on her plate to handle. She may have so many messages on her facebook that she doesn't even bother to check them out...because it would take too much time to read every one of them.
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