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Caught bf cheating, we broke up! Should I forgive him?
05-06-2014, 09:00 PM
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Caught bf cheating, we broke up! Should I forgive him?
I'm not those type of girls who check their boyfriend's phone, Facebook, etc. in fact I let him go out with his friends and tell him to have a good time and to text me later. I like giving him his space as I like to have my own space as well. Well I just broke up with my boyfriend because one day I saw two girls text him (didn't read the mssgs just saw the names) so I asked him, and he said they were just friends. I saw his phone and the mssgs were deleted. So that got me curious and so I logged into his Facebook account and omg he was flirting with so many girls talking about "when are we gunna hang out" most of the girls would not reply or be like no, but it was him that kept bugging and asking.
For me that's already cheating if you have to hide or delete messages from your partner. We broke up, but he's blowing up my phone with calls and texts. I do miss him, and he even cried and apologized. We've been together for 2 years and 3 months and he practically knows all my family already. Oh by the way, this is the second time I caught him tryna flirt with girls on Facebook.

The question is.. Should I forgive him? I don't want to but something inside of me is telling me to.. Help! In need of opinions!

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05-06-2014, 09:00 PM
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idk if you've already done this but talk to him, tell him what is going on and why you feel this way and that the next time it happens you'll be done for good. I think he'd think twice the next time. also tell him you are not comfortable with him texting other girls and hiding it from you

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05-06-2014, 09:04 PM
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youre not the type of girl that violates her bfs privacy...except for the part where you violated his privacy.
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05-06-2014, 09:06 PM
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No. Cheaters cheat. You sound great and deserve someone who thinks the world of you.
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05-06-2014, 09:14 PM
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Cheating is when you have actual physical sexual contact and that is absolute proof a person is cheating. That is my own view of what cheating is. Talk is cheap because supply exceeds demand. A lot of times there is no meaning behind it other than teasing people. It's your choice. You already broke up meaning you don't trust him. You invaded his privacy which means you already don't trust him.
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05-06-2014, 09:27 PM
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You are both immature. You say you don't go through his phone, but you read text messages and logged into his facebook. That's real logical. If you're the jealous type, most of the guys out there won't stand for it and you'll find yourself alone more often than not. He's a flirt, clearly. Why don't you just go to him and say look, we're two different people who want different things. We're better off not being together. That way I don't feel like I'm violating your privacy by going through your messages and email and you don't have to flirt with girls in secret. Pretty easy, you just need to step up to the plate.
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