How to get this girl to like me?

[Jason]

Hope this isn't too long but it's kind of a weird situation. Ok so I just entered high school last August in Maryland and it's not too bad. I had an established group of friends and we all sat at the same lunch tables. But then around mid October or somewhere near then, our table that we sat at for a month and a half was moved (don't know why) 10 ft across the cafeteria. So I just told some of the people to move and sit at that table with me. I didn't notice this at first because I sat facing the other way but I started sitting at this one seat that I still sit at because after a while I started noticing that when I sat at that seat, I could see this one girl at the table right in front of us and she was beautiful. I won't say her name out of a fear that she might read this. To give a short description of her, She has somewhat curly brown hair, Sparkling blue eyes, round nose, pretty thin, on the short size (I kinda like shorter girls). And as far of a personality goes I couldn't tell you. It might sound weird that I'm kind of in love with this girl and I don't think I've ever said one word to her. I don't think we've even spent any time longer than 30 min in the cafeteria but she obviously has some effect on me. I mean I show all the signs that I'm in love. Im constantly thinking about her,I look forward to the time when I get to a least see her even if its just for a second, I like to daydream about her while listening to music and I've even had a couple dreams about her where she's holding me and saying i love you. Another way I can tell that i really like her is that when ever i think I'm in love, i don't really have an interest in any other girl and i don't think about having sex but holding hands and stuff. I also kind of stalk her (not in a weird way). I jumped up and down when i finally stumbled across her FB account because I hadn't even known her name until that point. Based on her FB all I can really tell is that she is on the swim team, really likes Justin Bieber and is just an overall nice person to be around. I even took pictures of my computer screen with her FB pictures on there so I could always look at her. So i guess why I'm asking about this is i don't know what to do. The thing is we do not have a single class together. All last semester all i could think about is how cool it would be if we could be in a class together because the problem isn't that i would be shy to talk to her but that it would be kind of weird to go up to a girl that you've never met during lunch while she's sitting with all her friends and just say "Hey I like you, wanna hang out some time?" Ive become pretty good at socializing lately so i know that if i could just have one class with her that i would talk to her, get her to like me and eventually ask her out. Usually, if i couldn't get a girl I would just get over her if i knew she didn't like me back. She might like me back because the first thing that tells me a girl might be interested is if she stares at me and when i look up, she immediately looks away. Well, I catch her doing it at lunch but i've had a couple of run ins with her where i see her looking at me in the halls. Also what I'm wondering is this really love or just obsession because obviously I've experienced obsession before but i can't explain it. For some reason i just have this weird feeling in my gut and when i look into her eyes i feel everything love should be. Im also not sure if I'm good enough for her. To describe me for the last couple of months, I have thick brown hair, green eyes, about 5ft 7in, not skinny or fat (If you know what Ian Hecox looks like i'd say i have his hair and body type) but i don't have many hobbies or friends. Im in the video production club, play a little guitar and a little tennis but thats it. My real passion is comedy and i hear that's a quality women look for. I can make most people I'm comfortable with laugh and I'm nice. Because of her I've decided to start lifting weights to tone my chest and i even have some arm muscles. The thing is based on her FB, I think her family is kinda rich. They have a nice house, travel a lot, go to a country club. Also i think she is like basically a year older than me (born 9 months before me) In a week ill be her age. Ive never had a girlfriend and I'm wondering if i should just forget her because i was hoping i would get a class with in the start of the 2nd semester but i didn't and i can't go that long with not begin able to talk with her. Should i friend her on FB because we have 50 mutual friends but I'm scared to. Plz respond

[Heisotsu 2]

loool you write a lot mate
First of all, definitely friend her on facebook. If she accepts like most people do, then bam. If not, then a) shes weird b) she has a legitimate reason for not friending you (parents, doesn't know you, etc. ) but rarely is that the case. Theres really no harm in trying. Honestly, whats the worse thats going to happen? She doesn't accept your friend req? Then thats pretty much equal to what you are now.

I gotchu though. It can be tough making connections with people you don't have classes with as classes are about the easiest way to strike up convo (hey wats the hw etc. ). If not, find some of those mutual friends and ask around. you never know, what if your best friend has been friends with her for years? If not, i would recommend that you just try to establish contact with her. Make her aware that you are friendly and she'll naturally open up to you.

Just be careful that you don't come off as creepy. Don't ever insist on anything, don't ever make things awkward. Make light conversation. Flirt, dont flood her with confessions of deep endless love.

actually wait on flirting. Just focus on becoming friends, there is always time for flirting later. Seriously, listen to me buddy, I don't want you to alienate her with cheesy pick lines or anything over the top before you befriend her.

alsoo, consider the audience. If she is in love with JB, you don't have to say you are the biggest fan of all time, but don't tease her about it too much and take cheap shots at the bieber.

this is like my 5th edit (for all the time i put into this you better do what I say), but avoid formal intros.
"Hey i saw you on fb!"
"Hey are you in my class?No? Oh thats funny cause theres someone just like you and ..."
"Hey were friends now ok. "<--- i do this all the time and it works for me but be careful my friends think its weird but some girls love it so
"Hey can i sit here?" ALWAYS ASK because courtesy and it opens conversation as opposed to just ghosting up next to her
idk what else because I don't know much else about the situation. Just try to talk to her seriously

oh and just because she looks away when you look at her doesn't mean for sure that she likes you. Some people (like myself) get kind of embarassed if I am caught staring at anyone.

tl;dr man up (jk) and become her friend.

[Emma]

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