How to tell a shy girl you like them?

[797]

Yes so I do like a girl, and honestly I kinda feel like she may like me too (not certain though) but really there's no way for me to be certain about it because we are both quite shy, and we never talk or interact apart from a couple of online conversations about schoolwork. That being said, I do know that she's very kind and sweet because of how she acts around friends that she's comfortable with. For a while she would often catch me looking at her, and I would occasionally do the same. Lately I've been pretty sure that she's been looking at my twitter (don't have time to elaborate on that but I have my reasons why), and I've been thinking that perhaps if I wrote something on there to hint or just flat out say that I like her, perhaps she would read it and it would be less awkward for both of us than if I were to tell her in person. For such a shy person like me do you think this is a good idea, or do you think I should tell her on Facebook or in person? Also, do you have any suggestions on what I should say? I personally think it would be sorta creepy and weird if I were to just go up and say it so i'm wondering what options I have in terms of how I would say this. My apologies for the overasked questions, I'm just tired of the guilt of having these feelings and not doing anything about them. Thanks for your time

[Bianca]

Go up to her in person, that way you can see her reaction. Just tell her that you think she's very sweet and beautiful and you would love to take her out on a date. Or try a conversation with her and kind of bring it up. If she says no, it won't be the end of the world, just remember that! Good luck!

[creamieevolution]

Ask her friends.

[Opposites Attract]

One day while you are talking you should slide in something like, " I'm craving(insert food you're craving) do you want to go with me to get some?" Just make it seem casual, after a while of spending more time you can tell her that you really like her. Shoot you could tell her now. It's really up to you and what you feel comfortable with. Just feel it out, and go for it.

[Jera]

If you really want to do something special for someone shy like this, forget Twitter & Facebook. And if you are not comfortable telling her verbally, I suggest you get a nice piece of paper (or a nice card with a lovely picture but with no printed message inside) and write her a simple, but heartfelt note and give it to her privately.

Be honest. Write something like ... I know you're shy. So am I. But I think you're kind and sweet and I would like to get to know you better. Would you be interested in getting to know me better?

Being direct is the best way to go.

[Kellyrose568]

Don't tell her over Facebook. You could use reverse psychology by going up to her and asking her how she would do it without saying that it's her and see how she reacts. If she gets uncomfortable with talking to you about it, then its possible she likes you. Or you could man up and just ask her out.

[Kuma]

You have to brave up and ask her in person. The fear of rejection can be hard to overcome, but if you don't ask straightforwardly, you won't ever know. Also it is a pretty well known fact that women are attracted to confidence, so asking her out with confidence (and not hiding behind Facebook & twitter) will have a greater success of her feeling the same way.

Honestly, Facebook and Twitter have become a plague to our generations social interaction skills.

[Im]

Smile at her and introduce yourself and ask her out !