How to move on from a broken heart.. girls! ?

[LOVEFORLIFE]

So ive already blocked him off every social media site AND changed my number, have you got any tips to move on from a broken heart and show him your happier without him?

thanks girls!!

[craft painter]

There is no way to stop the hurt. Only time does that. it does help to start going out with the girls and when you find another guy to take up your time you will start to feel better about things.

[PAULA D]

Just be happy in general. Remember there is a reason you left him. It probably would have been much worse if you let what happened slide. Good for you! You are already on your way. Think about how bad he is feeling (of course he won't let you know that) because he screwed up and lost you. Don't call him or contact him at all! You have the upper hand and seem to be the more mature and logical one. Stay that way. Time will heal your heart. What really helped me was listening to "our song", going to the places we always went, and wallowed in it all until I was sick of it. I mean I dove right into it all. I figured it was easier to get it all out there and get sick of all of it instead of trying to avoid those places and turning off the songs. when you avoid all of it because it may hurt it makes you miss him more when you finally do hear that song, etc. I was so sick of wallowing in it that after two weeks I was done! Good luck. PS - he will hear from other people how great you are doing and it will pizz him off! lol

[bonn]

It takes time to get over losing someone you cared about even if youre the one to end it.

1. keep your mind occupied with fun & exciting things.
2. understand that its best to be free of the person who is all wrong for you so you can meet the one that's good for you
3. tell yourself that its better to be alone than miserable with someone who doesn't give you the love you want/deserve
4. stop taking the break up personal, there is nothing wrong with you, the problem is the other person
5. stop entertaining thoughts of what could have been & embrace that this person was only meant to be in your life temporarily


Most of all, the pain you feel is creating a character in you that is needed for the relationship you will have with the person who commits their heart to you.

[LEYKIS 101]

If you want to show him your happier without him, YOUR PROBABLY LYING TO YOURSELF!!! Yes your still hurt and want him to hurt like you do!!

Just move on and forget about him!!