My boyfriend constantly likes other girls pictures?

[437]

Okay so I'm in a long distance relationship and we have been really happy together until about 2 months ago. On tumblr and instagram he would always like other girls pictures but not mine. I have had really bad insecurity issues in the past and still kind of do. I have told him that it upsets me and makes me feel not good enough, but he still continues to do it. He might think I don't look on what he likes but obviously he can't be trusted. And I know he's a guy so he will think other girls are good looking, but it's one picture after another and sometimes of the same girls. I don't want to bring it up with him again because he knows I will have been looking through his likes.

[Niamh]

Well mabye its not so serious after all! Some people just do this . It could be worrying though

[Sara]

It almost sounds like he might be doing this as a way to make you a bit jealous, to make you like him more. This is common especially among shy or more sensitive people. He is avoiding liking your pictures so that you won't think he likes you "too much", and he keeps you guessing.

Now if he's not really a sweet guy and really is just a hornball...then completely disregard. You know him better than us.

[Liz]

well if you already talked to him and he isnt trying to change it then do what you gotta do. You have to think about it in depth i mean. It seems like he doesn't care about your feelings. If he asked you to quit something that bothered him would you? And i mean something along the same lines involving the opposite sex like maybe not wear a skirt around other guys if hes not around? I would think you might agree without a doubt or thinking twice about it! He seems to be selfish and a man that is selfish is a recipe for disaster AKA broken heart.