He is ignoring me,i am very hurt?

[594]

we have known each other for few years and we have seen each other on and during that time.However we recently got back in touch a month ago and he was planning to come to visit me then I noticed that he became distant and was barely responding to my fb messages.I asked him if he met someone else and he dinied it and said he still wants to see me.

He decactivated his face book account for some reason so I have been texting him instead but he is not responding to me.i even begged him to respond to my texts and asking why he is not responding and if he is okay and I got nothing.Its been more than a week since we spoke and he never responded to my texts.He deactivated his fb so texting is the only way I can get hold of him.I don't have his home phone number.I used to have it but I lost it when I switched phones and I didn't get around to ask him and his cell phone doesn't take calls.its only for texts messaging and voice mail.

I was thinking to message his brother on face book and ask him about it but I am not sure.what should I do? I am really hurt that he is ignoring me cold turkey but at the same time I want to find out if he is okay through his brother

[That Guy]

What the hell... Shut up hahaha you're scaring me.
Give the guy some space.
Stop thinking about yourself. Just for a minute.
This might seen brutal but it's the only way you'll see this.
THINK ABOUT HIM
Who's to say his mother hasn't just died?
Who's to say he's just got some bad news?
THINK
He wants space and all you care about is if he's speaking to you or not. I'm glad you don't have many ways to contact him...
I apologise for saying like this but what the hell... Stop being so selfish.. Back off and let him contact you

[Nicole]

Leave the guy alone he's not interested! I'm a woman and I wanna run away from you just by reading this lol

[RobertRay]

You are trying too hard and coming across as too desperate. Maybe you don't intend to be that way but it's probably how he is seeing it, and that is probably pushing him away. It does sound like you are banking on this turning out to be a relationship and that is too much too soon for as little contact as you have had lately. Plus it sounds like long distance which is a major challenge.

You need to sit back and wait for him to contact you. If it doesn't work out, there is nothing you could have done to make it turn out differently. If you have no other way to contact him, chances are that's how he wants it or he would give you his phone number. Honestly, he does not sound very interested. Maybe he says he is, but his actions speak so much louder than his words and I think you need to pay closer attention to that.

Do not message his brother or anyone else he knows. That will certainly make you sound desperate and will almost guarantee he will want nothing to do with you.

[Jayjhonson]

yup i gotta agree with the other posters, give him space...if u dont it will def push him away. sheesh even i wish i knew this earlier ><