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If she said its nothing why unfriend me on fb? Why is SHE making this a big deal? Advice needed.?
05-09-2014, 11:11 AM
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If she said its nothing why unfriend me on fb? Why is SHE making this a big deal? Advice needed.?
I hooked up with this girl at a club went back to her place where she told me she was a virgin, and I was the first guy she ever brought back to her room. She was cute and apologized to me, I told her if we were there again i would come back with you 100 times out of 100. I even asked her on a date that night cause she just seemed different than the rest. The next morning I got her number and went home, (it was alumni weekend, shes a student I graduated last year). We texted for a couple of months, told each other we were attracted to each other and talked alot. I was going to go up to take her on the date when she told me she wasnt going out cause of finals, so i went home and didnt come up. When i got home she told me she was going to go out and i should meet up with her.. We talked through xmas, the texting would be good somedays then others i could tell she wasnt into it as much as she used to be. After new years she started texting me first, which she did a couple of times. I asked her to a hockey game and she said yes, then an hour later said she couldnt bc she was seeing someone else. I knew she lied, i thought it was bc shes just shy and didnt know how to handle the pressure of taking a step. I backed off for a couple of weeks, until last weekend where i went back up for my friends birthday. I texted her and she told me to meet up with her at a bar, I came back to her place and slept over again, cuddled and made out the whole night.

Saturday night i texted her cause i told her i was going to the same bar she was going to and she said idk and idk what im doing yet and basically that she didnt want to hangout with me... fine i get it. I get to the bar she walks past me twice and looks right at me and keeps walking..? Now thats not ok with me, your begging me to come to your house and u f*cking walk by me without saying anything. So i start dancing with my friends girlfriend in front of her on purpose and she starts dancing with a guy. I go up to her and basically ask her what her deal is and she wouldnt look at me or anything.. just a blank look. I left the bar and left her a wtf text being like i would say my b but i didnt do anything. The next morning she texted me and said she blacked out and was sorry for being a ***** to me. A day goes by i realize i cant find one of my keys so i text her hey, no answer then i asked her and she said no. I later look on fb and she unfriended me and went off saying im wasting her time and she doesnt want to talk to me. Now i have no idea what happened but i know she had interest at one point and i want to still pursue it after i give it a month or so. I say this now but i know it might be a terrible idea later......

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05-09-2014, 11:13 AM
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This is way too long, I'm not reading this. Basically, get over it. Move on. You hooked up with her, there's your answer. She got in, got off, got out.

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05-09-2014, 11:15 AM
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She doesnt act like a virgin after the last weekend but why would she tell you that you were the first guy to ever come back to her room? Sounds like she had feelings for you and is just shy and inexperienced. Unfriending you on fb is weird going through that process means she just didnt want to see anything that made her think of you.
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05-09-2014, 11:25 AM
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It happens. Girls will be girls. You've run into what I like to call, Wolf. A 'Wolf', if a female that does not like to be alone, she is sure to keep with someone at all times, a pack, of friends, or having a guy on the side to talk to and make her feel pretty, to vent to and flirt with when she is mad at her boyfriend, or is single and just doesn't want to date anyone, but still doesn't want to be alone. She's just using you as a synthetic 'pack member' if you will. Move on mate, she isn't worth it.
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