If random girls give excuses to not give their number the first time, are they not attracted to you?

[184]

Random girls approach me and sometimes I get introduced by my mates. They seem shy and stuff and we end up having good conversations the first time we have met.
However when I ask " CAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBER" they seem to give excuses to not give their number.

I am not creepy or indecent.

So does that mean they are not attracted to me ?

Thanks,girls.

[Black Magic Woman]

Try to get it in a indirect way

For example instead of saying can I get your number it sounds a little desperate and forced
Say something like wow your so interesting id like to hang out sometime would you like it? And go from there...

I'm sure they are into you but the can I get your number line scares us off and sends a desperate message


Good luck!

[Joey]

Basically, no number means no, they're not interested.

But here's the thing, even if you got numbers, some could be fake or she will not answer and return your msg - these mean not interested as well.

Lastly, say you guys are on a date after setting up the date from the number. The girl may still be not interested in you and really just bored and decided to pass some time.

Sucks, doesn't it?

[MumbleMumble]

After a few bad experiences, I don't give guys my number unless we've been fb friends or something for a while. I find that entrusting them with my number the first time we talk is a bit unnerving and it scares me off.
That is a personal thing though, if they don't offer a different way of staying in contact then they probably aren't interested. Sorry.