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Fiancé blocked me on Facebook but?
05-11-2014, 02:00 PM
Post: #1
Fiancé blocked me on Facebook but?
Yet adds strangers? It's not just me he blocks though, he also blocked his siblings and parents because "he doesn't want to know their business and he doesn't want to know ours"....while it does seem suspicious he blocked me, it doesn't appear that he is up to no good. According to friends, he doesn't do much on fb, it's like he browses but doesn't interact. Yet he will add strangers he meets online on other sites. This bothers me ALOT and he knows how I feel but refuses to add me. I just think it's very strange. Should I just let it go since I have no real reason to suspect any cheating? I still feel its wrong though.
Oops I meant he doesn't want to know our business and he doesn't want us "spying" on his business
Thank you Suzy q I completely agree!!!! It's totally suspicious to me and no matter what I've told him or explain why I feel it's wrong, he doesn't care because he says he sees no wrong in it and its better this way. I told him I feel uncomfortable sharing my life, my body, and a bed with a person who can't even share Facebook with me! It's odd!

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05-11-2014, 02:07 PM
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I'd say a stipulation of the engagement is him un-blocking you. Hiding things is never a good sign of things to come. If you want a successful marriage, it will need to be based on trust. Don't marry a guy who feels like he needs to hide his profile from you. That's a MAJOR red flag.

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05-11-2014, 02:21 PM
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I would have the right to be suspicious because he is about to cheat on you. he is blocking because he doesn't want anyone to know that he is about to cheat on you. he blocked his family members because he doesn't want to shame is family.

Or he could just be stalking them, viewing pictures of girls or something.
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05-11-2014, 02:23 PM
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You shouldn't feel the need to hide things from the woman you're going to marry, he should trust you completely.

Sounds like a warning bell to me - I'd question whether you should really marry this guy.
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05-11-2014, 02:24 PM
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I think facebook is stupid,but thats just me..however i agree with suzie,that if hes already excluding you from this part of his life,even though you have told him it upsets you and he doesnt care,MAJOR red flag!
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05-11-2014, 02:35 PM
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This is not typical behavior for a guy who's crazy in love with a woman. Usually a guy who's about to get married wants to share as much as he can with his lady love, not to mention showing her off to all his friends.

You might want to re-think whether this is a personality type you really want to spend the rest of your life with. I'm sure he has many good qualities, but that doesn't mean you should overlook the obvious red flags. It's not about what he's actually doing on FB. It's about having a secretive personality and not even caring whether it hurts or bothers you.
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05-11-2014, 02:46 PM
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Baby boomer rock fan is right! It seems strange that someone so in love with you and about to go into marriage with you has a whole section of his life locked away from you.

Porn addiction is a massive problem these days, he could be doing that, or chatting to women to keep his life exciting - who knows how bad it could get later on in life if you have kids and a mortgage and he starts to find life a bit too mundane.

If he isn't up to anything, then why does it matter if you see it or not? Something is wrong.
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