Help! Boy Trouble :/?

[858]

Okay so I have a little problem... there's this guy in the year above me and we are kinda together like we talk all the on fb and in school, and I have shifted him 3 times (a shift is like a french kiss.. don't kill me I'm from Ireland ) and I actually like him and he told me he likes me too but... he's friends with like really rough people that do drugs and stuff I am aware that he also takes drugs and drinks too I'm just so worried that he'll just be in the ''wrong place wrong time'' if he doest stop I want to bring it up with him but I'm just afraid he won't understand or he'll leave me. It makes me sound like a protective bitch but I'm not I'm just worried for him ....

[Cat face]

drugs are bad news , if he don't want to stop you wont be able to stop him , then if you stay he will try his best to get you hooked as well ......get the f**k out now

[Jackson]

Tell him that he needs to choose what's more important. The relationship or his friends that could get him put in the slammer

[Hazel]

hell appreciate that youre worried about him. I used to think doing drugs and drinking meant youll go nowhere and end up dead or something. but theres this guy ive been talking to and he only does that stuff somtimes. hes a really hard worker and takes school and his film stuff seriously. I dont do drugs at all and his friends and himself have never pressured me to. in fact he makes sure he doesnt do that stuff around me. honestly it depends on how often he does it. if its just a weekend thing to wind down after a rough week with friends then dont worry about it. if its like an all the time kind of thing then bring it up. he wont like you any less and hell love that you worry about him.

[Samantha]

Oh damn, you seriously need to worry about this cuz this is not a small thing. I mean, in future, just imagine. If at all he's addicted to drugs, it sure could cause a lotta problems!

But I understand you worry about him exactly because you care about him. And I appreciate that. But do you know something? If he loves you truly, then you're the only person who can make him stop using drugs. I suggest you talk to him rather seriously about this and tell him that you find this really weird and you feel kinda insecure that he's like this.

Good luck God bless.

[Emily]

I thik you should talk to him about it. tellhim that you dont want to sound overprotective but you care about him and it bothers you.
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[Boo!]

Haha I'm irish too, its wierd trying to explain it!
I shifted this guy last year and then we started to really like each other and he did the same kinda thing, but he was so protective of me and so nice, and he really cared, and some of the girls in my year would say bad things about us cause of his friends but he made me happy and cared about me, but he always got himself into fights and he knew I didnt like this, as I told him and he was respective of it, and if he was going to do anything, he would always ask me first, most times i didn't want him to but I knew I had to let him do what he thought was right!

[Aaronn]

talk to him abt it. if he doesnt care about ur opinion at all n does nothing abt it then ditch him. tonnes of other guys out there.