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Guys please. I really need your help. Does he hate me or I'm annnoying him? 10 pts. Please?
10-15-2012, 11:13 PM
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Guys please. I really need your help. Does he hate me or I'm annnoying him? 10 pts. Please?
He is my first crush. We are in college right now.
He is the president of the med students club that I join. He is a senior.
He is a nice guy. He has many female and male friends
He gave me his phone number ( for club stuff). And he never texted or called me first.
He is kinda shy. I'm not sure. When he talked with me, he can't look at my eyes for long. He always looked around instead.
I asked him to go to watch sport with me twice. And he said NO twice!
He won't say hi to me anymore, if he sees me on campus :'(
I saw him looked at me sometimes
Yesterday, we had volunteer work. There were 4 of us. We were talking while waiting the boss.
My parents called me so I have to walk further from them, I saw he looked at me sometime.

Then 4 of us had to go diff places. We had to separate. Our boss told us that he can drive us and drop off at the place that we had to be. Suddenly, my crush touched my shoulder (It was the first time he touch me) and told the boss that we can walk. (I didn't say anything!). his place was close to my place and it wasn't really far. Then I walked with him to the place that we had to be. We talked while walking.
He didn't ask questions about myself alot.

I saw him on campus yesterday. I knew he saw me too. We were in the market on campus. I was looking for food. I saw him looked at me but he didn't say hi to me. I acted like I didn't see him either. He walked behind me twice but didn't say hi or anything. Then I walked out of the market and he did also. Then our eyes caught each other. He just waved to me and smile. I said hi to him and started conversation. When he talked with me he looked around ALOT.. Sometime I felt like he didn't listen to me

I saw him on campus today he stood close to me and he didn't say hi to me either. Then I said hi first (again) he looked at me first without smiling, then he smiled to me and siad hi. I kept talking to him. He acted really cold to me. But when I left, he kept looking at me.

I added him on facebook about last month. And now he deactivated and move to twitter already.
I feel like I'm annoying him! :'(

Why? Why he do that to me?
Does he like me or I'm annoying him?

P.S. please don't tell me to ask him out. I did twice!

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10-15-2012, 11:21 PM
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firstly this question is way to long and annoying for me to read the whole thing -
secondly you mentioned the words "twitter" and "facebook" at the end of that rant so i'm guessing you have no real social life and spend all your time making sh*(T up in your head because you don't want to bother actually taking any risks in your life
Thirdly you represent the majority of teen-twenty somethings that exist in the world today so i'm sure you will find someone who is socially acceptable enough for you.

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10-15-2012, 11:21 PM
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FAce him and tell him how you feel... and listen to what he thinks about it!!!! that's the surest way for you to find out!!! .. U ain't got nothin' to lose... if he doesn't feel the same way, at least U ALREADY KNOW THE ANSWER AND U won't spend your nights wondering about the same thing over and over anymore and then all u gotta do is move on, there are still plenty more guys out there like me haha i'm single(INTERESTED?) lol...but seriously, WHAT IF HE DOES LIKE YOU??? SO C'MON GIVE IT A TRY.. ASK HIM
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10-15-2012, 11:21 PM
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Jeesh this seems like a real pickle.

Because u say that he is shy, I to would of thought that you approaching him and asking him out would have been your best bet, but he said no twice. A reason for saying no could of been that he is extremely shy and he panicked. The thing to do would be to hang around him alot and let him warm up to you. Also, how does he act around his female friends? Is he only shy with you?

It is hard to tell and I'm just going with what you have told me. It is very possible that he just doesn't like you, or he missinterpreted something you've done or said. Also that thing that he did with facebook and Twitter could have nothing to do with you. You could of been annoying him
If you continuously sent him messages. If you were sending him messages, was he replying?

There is way to many possibilities and I cannot narrow anything down from here. Ultimately it's up to you to do something about it but if it doesn't work I'm sure you know the drill, there's plenty of fish in the sea yadayadayada.

Anyway good luck!
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