why wont he unblock me on fb since we are back together?

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me and this guy have been together 8 months and have a long dist relationship, we split up for a month at xmas because he caught me changing his password to get in2 his fb and also deleting some female friends i know this was wrong please dont judge me but i was going through tough time (an abortion) and lost the plot a little after that he ignored me for 3 weeks and has blocked me since. we are now back together for the last two weeks and last week he asked me to add him but i said i couldnt find him and to unblock me and he said he did but didnt, i left it and the following day i asked him to unblock me and he said it depends if i was going to give him trouble like before (as i used to give out about him talking to female friends) i promised i wouldnt and then he said he would think about it. things are going brilliant now and we have even planned on moving in together, i understand that hes concerned it will cause more fights and he doesnt want to upset the way things are now but id still like to be his friend and put him up as my other half and stuff ( i know it sounds childish but i want people to know im with him and also it will help me relax if other girls see he has a gf) im no im terribly insecure but i need help on what i should do, it feels weird not been friends with him on it but i dont want to bring it up as it is a touchy subject. what should i do? will he ever add me again?

[boobiebaby69]

You've gone through something as serious as an abortion and you're worrying about facebook status?!?!?!

Seriously, priorities?!

It's a raw nerve at the moment so just leave it, was he actually cheating on you or anything? If he was then you have reason to be worried but if he wasn't then just chill. If you bring it up again you'll only rock the boat. If you move in together then your facebook status won't even matter anyway. If it matters to you that much then wait a while for your relationship to be more secure before you bring it up.

[TiNkyu TiNkZ xx]

bbe i can totally relate to you. Me and my boyfriend broke up a couple of weeks ago and he took me off fb he changed his status back to single and i felt so humiliated because everyone saw it. There are also alot of girls who like him so i knew the fact they saw this would make them really happy so i started worrying even more. Now we are basically back together but we are still working through certain probems mainly me being insecure. He re added me as his friend bt he is still single on fb n i havnt yet brought it up. I would love for him to put me bk up as his girlfriend but i realised i have to stop thinking about what i want...im guessing he will put me back up but he wants to be sure that im nt going to hurt him agani because imagine hw stupid he will look if he keeps changing relationship statuses. Ontop of this he told most of his friends we were over so i think he doesnt want to end up looking stupid. The truth is though give it a little while and then bring it back up again. Im just going to leave it until things are completley back to there best n then get to that subject. Stop worrying about other females,they will alays be around but just rememember he picked u for a reason. One thing ive learnt is men can be flirty with other woman it doesnt mean they like them men just LOVE to be liked. Its all about the attention. So you have to build on your insecurities, kno that you are full of beautifull qualities otherwise he wouldnt of picked you AND taken you back.
Just give the fb thing a while to settle,prove you can be trusted again n then send him a request
Good luck n i hope this helps xx