do u ever think my ex bf may check my fb?

[520]

me and my ex dated for almost 2 years then he broke up with me cuz we had arguments on texting
after breakup
first month we stayed friends but couldnt handle it
second month i called twice only.first time he said hes gna do surgery,second call i was worried he didnt pick up
i texted him saying i still love him he made his czn pick up and say hes in hospital and that i should never talk to him again &to stay away hes not good man for me
and yes i made sure hes lying abt surgery.since that call i told him on text and fb that im gna leave him alone but im really hurt and sad etc
he didnt reply both of them,hours after i sent fb msg he deactivated

my ex bf had 2 fb
one he used to use it with me(only had 10 friends) he deactivated it month after the breakup hours after i sent him that gd bye msg on it(im sure he was stalking me)
another facebook he used to have it before we were dating it has like 70 ppl,few girls but most of them r old friends he deactivated when we started dating(idk why)
now hes back to it,,,but theres no updates no pics no new friends its all the same...we r not friends on it
do u think hes using it to stalk me as he did with that account?

my fb is deactivated cuz i feel like craap but should i go back to it &make updates and all?
any idea how to make him regret leaving ?i just still love him...DONT TELL ME TO MOVE ON CUZ IAM TRYING

[ilovety]

It shouldn't matter to you whether he checks your fb or not. He might just want to check up on you to see how you're doing. But the chances are that he activated it again so he could talk to his friends. You should definitely reactivate your account, don't just deactivate it because of a silly boy. Just use it as you normally would, talk to you friends on there, comment stuff, post stuff. I think you might just need to give him some time to himself at the moment, if he wanted to talk to you he would have or at least tried getting in contact. You can't really make someone regret leaving you, they either regret it or they don't. Even if he does end up regretting it, it may take him a few months or so to regret it. If after this time he hasn't tried making contact with you, hasn't added you back on fb etc then you need to move on because he won't be coming back. Also, if you're going to talk to him first (which i advise you don't, let him miss you!) don't be clingy at all, just say a casual hey. If he doesn't want to talk then you must respect his wishes. Good luck!