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extraordinary · 05-14-2014, 11:12 AM

So i have a friend who i've been friends with for a year and i basically started REALLY liking her and i'm a GIRL too. there are a couple very subtle signs that make me believe she could possibly like me too but i'm not quite sure. Like for instance, she would often text me she misses me and one time she texted me "miss you <3" after I just saw her the day before. and on valentines day she texted me happy valentines day with a bunch of emoticons and then she took a screen shot of my text msg and uploaded it to her instagram that read "<3 she made my day. #loveofmylife." before she put anything up about her boyfriend. she also like took a picture of me once at school because she thought i looked really cute and also uploaded that to her instagram as well. she often says things to me like "you're cute." I even caught her staring at me once while we were at the bar getting drinks. from the corner of my eye i saw her looking at me so i turned and we made eye contact for a few seconds then i smirked and she smiled quickly and looked away. by the way she knows I'm bisexual.

so about the part where she has a boyfriend. she recently told me that they're not "together" but still talking. i feel like they've fallen out many times so i'm not sure how that's gonna go. but yesterday she texted me after she woke up about our summer plan to california and then she tweeted on her twitter "it's weird how fast things can change." not sure what that meant
this is what i would say to her. http://s17.postimg.org/u7jc00ucf/Screen_..._42_AM.png

ajcowgirl · 05-14-2014, 11:18 AM

The only way you'll know is if you ask her. Are you really close with her? Can you just say something like "What would it be like if you and I got together?" Because I'm a straight girl, but me and my gal friends talk about eeevvverything so we could say things like that to each other. Or you could just tell her that she's the kind of girl you would date and see how she responds? You could just ask her "would you ever go on a date with me? Because you're totally my type."

I guess in the end, the only way you'll know is if you muster up the courage to ask her. If she's a true friend and a down-to-earth girl then she'll be nice about it.

Good luck!

Cora · 05-14-2014, 11:31 AM

Her actions could mean one of two things:
1. She's just being a girl. A lot of my friends do stuff like that to me and were straight. Girls tend to act a little homosexual towards other girls their close to.
2. She might be crushing on you.
Either way, if you really like her, I think that you should tell her. She'll either like you back, or she won't. But if you are truly as close as you seem, even if she's heterosexual, she will understand your feelings. You have nothing to be afraid of. Good luck!