how to get over a crush?

[984]

Its been three years since I had a crush on this guy. He broke my heart and I heart him too. He always used to say we were friends. And he never noticed me. Anyway this one time we had a fight and I said that I hated him. He said it back. Then he started making fun of me with his friends. But we never talked again. The problem is that I stalk his fb all the time. We arent friends on fb but my best friend finds new ways into hacking so I get to know things about him. The wierd thing is that its a nightmare to imagin that I would end up with this guy but when ever I like a new guy. Ialways remmeber him and think it will end badly. How do I get over him.

[wanderluster.]

Spend time with your friends and go places where you can meet new people. There's no quick fix answer to this.

[Anika]

Uhh maybe move on? You sound like you need professional help. Stalking his Facebook account and hacking it, really? Go out and meet new people. Life goes on regardless of whether or not you got him to be your boyfriend. Depending on how old you both are I doubt it would've worked out anyways. Conflicting interests and things like that take their toll in a high school relationship. Assume he has moved on and do the same. Go and live your life.

[boystownhotline]

I'm sorry to hear that you are struggling with the loss of your past relationship. It could be possible that you didn't get the proper closure when things ended and it's staying on your mind. Maybe it would be helpful to talk to a counselor to identify what might be going on, especially since you stated that you are having trouble with relationships since then. Meeting new people and keeping yourself surrounded with positive things that keep you happy will definitely be helpful in moving forward with your life! Keep reaching out and I hope all of the best for you!

FD, counselor