do guys have feelings too?

[296]

We've been together for 7 years. We're both okay, doing fine and i thought were going strong. Until an incident happen when I saw his conversation with another girl on his phone. Same sweetness i've been receiving from him. The girl kept on saying "i love you/ i miss you" etc. Right at that moment i thought my heart's going to explode. My hands were shaking and I just can't move or talk. I've lost my appetite for a couple of days after that.

I message him on facebook about what I felt about it. I made it sure that it's going to be my last message for him. He replied to it. He told me that it was only a joke and it was just nothing.

I didn't believe him. It's been 2 weeks since I stopped talking to my boyfriend. A week ago he sent me random text messages but i didn't answer him back. I was really hurt by what he did. I feel like I dont even want to see him anymore. Now, it's been a week since he stopped sending me messages. I also haven't seen him going online on facebook.

I was wondering if he has feelings too. Like hurt, pain, or guilt maybe? And for how long will it take for him to move on? He only talks to me thru sms but never take an effort to see me and talk about what he did. I was not expecting anything but come to think of it. 7 years, He won't take a risk to fight for me.

I was a good girlfriend. I loved him to bits. What can you say? I have no idea about guys' feelings.

[Someone123]

Guys and girls aren't as different as people think they really are, that's just a societal thing. Anyways, I wouldn't be worried too much about him, he made a mistake and now he's dealing with the consequences, just focus on yourself.

[Sweet]

Guys r gd at Lying b carefull

[Shubham]

Yes guys do have feelings.........now I dunno how your guy is...you need to sort some things out first

[samiamrd]

You have to assume that this relationship has come to an end. His other woman was testing the water. You really should not put any more into this relationship. You also have to stop being concerned about his feelings. I know that you loved him, but its probably not mutual any more. So don't worry about him moving on, you need to heel yourself, and move on with your life. It is going to be difficult, but you need to put this behind you.

Look there will be a better guy out there for you. Someone who loves you as much as you love him. This 7 year guy is not that, he certainly is not in this for the long run, so his feelings are not aligned with yours any more. You don't know how long they may have been out of alignment with your feelings. Well it is time to find someone better. Also every relationship is about faith. You have to have faith that they love you for who you are. Sometimes that works out, and sometimes it does not, but that should not interfere with your ability to find someone new who loves you as much as you love them. Think about you and your future. This guy, even through you loved him, is not the right guy for you. You are the only one looking out for your happiness, so create your future happiness with someone else. Normal guys do have feelings.