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It has been 2 weeks Should I message him or does that make me look...?
05-15-2014, 07:42 AM
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It has been 2 weeks Should I message him or does that make me look...?
I always thought if a guy care about you he will message you, and if he doesn't for about 3 days he has lost interest.
I meet him through Kik and he tells me he cares and loves me. I decline to be in any couple relationship so we stayed friends.
We would go hours on messaging each other and there wouldn't be a day where we wouldn't message each other. I finally sent him a picture of myself and he said I was "beautiful". Everything change after that. He would slowly reply and I felt sad and he would sort of get mad about that.
He would want to "s.ex.t" but I would decline saying I never want to be in a relationship and how my life is worthless.
It's been two weeks and he hasn't replied to my last message. It was Delievered and he was on his Kik when I replied to him few seconds later. He hasn't read it but I know he is active because I am following him on Instagram.

Should I reply.? I don't want to look desperate or clingy. What to say if I should.? I want to make sure he is not mad at me ):
Thanks in advance. [and if you need help post your question & I'll try to help when can.]

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05-15-2014, 07:48 AM
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You probably scared him away, because he was obviously wanting to pursue further then a friendship with you; But you telling him your life is "worthless" and all of that is not something a guy wants to hear. Why is it worthless? No ones life is worthless, otherwise they'd probably commit suicide. There is something that is keeping your life going, lighten up. Have a relationship. Have some fun, and don't scare maybe future mates away by saying stuff like that. If I were him, i'd stop talking to you too if it got me no where. That threw up a red-flag to him. Apologize, its been 2 weeks. Tell him you've thought about everything, and you're changing your view on life, blah blah blah.
Hope it works!

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05-15-2014, 07:53 AM
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He might be thinking that it&#x27;s useless to keep on the chat, because you have no interest on him, so he doesn&#x27;t reply.

And, if he doesn&#x27;t reply you, why bother to reply him?

And if you really want to make sure he is not mad at you, then text him just one message. But i&#x27;m sure he won&#x27;t be mad for nothing.
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