It has been 2 weeks Should I message him or does that make me look...?
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05-15-2014, 07:42 AM
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It has been 2 weeks Should I message him or does that make me look...?
I always thought if a guy care about you he will message you, and if he doesn't for about 3 days he has lost interest.
I meet him through Kik and he tells me he cares and loves me. I decline to be in any couple relationship so we stayed friends. We would go hours on messaging each other and there wouldn't be a day where we wouldn't message each other. I finally sent him a picture of myself and he said I was "beautiful". Everything change after that. He would slowly reply and I felt sad and he would sort of get mad about that. He would want to "s.ex.t" but I would decline saying I never want to be in a relationship and how my life is worthless. It's been two weeks and he hasn't replied to my last message. It was Delievered and he was on his Kik when I replied to him few seconds later. He hasn't read it but I know he is active because I am following him on Instagram. Should I reply.? I don't want to look desperate or clingy. What to say if I should.? I want to make sure he is not mad at me ): Thanks in advance. [and if you need help post your question & I'll try to help when can.] Ads |
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05-15-2014, 07:48 AM
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You probably scared him away, because he was obviously wanting to pursue further then a friendship with you; But you telling him your life is "worthless" and all of that is not something a guy wants to hear. Why is it worthless? No ones life is worthless, otherwise they'd probably commit suicide. There is something that is keeping your life going, lighten up. Have a relationship. Have some fun, and don't scare maybe future mates away by saying stuff like that. If I were him, i'd stop talking to you too if it got me no where. That threw up a red-flag to him. Apologize, its been 2 weeks. Tell him you've thought about everything, and you're changing your view on life, blah blah blah.
Hope it works! Ads |
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05-15-2014, 07:53 AM
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He might be thinking that it's useless to keep on the chat, because you have no interest on him, so he doesn't reply.
And, if he doesn't reply you, why bother to reply him? And if you really want to make sure he is not mad at you, then text him just one message. But i'm sure he won't be mad for nothing. |
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