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Should I confront them?
05-15-2014, 08:03 PM
Post: #1
Should I confront them?
So I'm pretty sure my friends are fake but they are the only friends I have in high school I'm in the 11th grade. So I thought we were friends but I found out they talk shit about me . They say one thing to me face but says something else. I found out about this because of of the friends signed into Facebook on my pho but never signed out . So I found out everything these friends where saying in their group chat that doesn't include me. They aren't good friends to me at all, I already knew this but the things they say about and the way they never message me and leave me out is too much. They say one thing to me that's nice like" we are here for you ,we love you " but then in the FB chat they are making plans without me and saying shit like I'm dumb and they don't care about my dumb feelings, and other mean things about me. I want to call them out on it but the way I found out about this is snooping. And I know how wrong it is . If I told them I know what they are saying they would know I look at the messages . I need to keep them around till I graduate so I won't be a loner but should I confront them at graduation? Because I don't plan on bing friends with them after words. Or should I take this to the grave and cut the, off when I go to college. I just want them to know I can do better than them. Also how can I make it seem like I have better people to hang out with than them? Thank you for your help how can I make them regret being cruel to me?

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05-15-2014, 08:13 PM
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Find better friends? Make your own plans? Make them jealous of you? There's so many things you can do. The right and best thing to do would be to confront them.. You could make up an elaborate story about how your nosy cousin (or whoever) picked up your phone and started snooping through your friends messages and informed you that your so called friends were talking smack about you. No one deserves to be the pity party friend, 3rd wheel, and to be honest I rather have no one than a bunch of fake jerks as friends. I'm very sorry this happened to you. Keep your friends close, but your enemies closer.

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05-15-2014, 08:19 PM
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confront them. why are u going to wait until u graduate to confront them. its better to be a loner than be surrounded around fake people. If I was in your shoes I would of confront them so they can know im not a fool. let them know wats up. they look stupid talkin behind your back that's only because they respect you to say it to your face.. fck them you should stop talking to them. like the quote says I rather have 4 quarters than a 100 pennies fck fakes.
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05-15-2014, 08:20 PM
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Although you should confront them, it's not even necessary to do that, stop hanging out with them, go find some new friends. Trust me, in a school environment, it's usually really easy to find other people. You don't owe your toxic friends anything, they're not even your friends.
Sorry to hear about this and good luck in your future.

Also, just a side note, even if you do end up ditching your current 'friends' and not being able to find new ones, from what i understand, your graduation is soon and chances are, you're not going to see many people from school anymore anyway. but good luck all the same Smile
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05-15-2014, 08:22 PM
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Ok. Here&#x27;s what you do. You slowly stop being their friend while you start to make new ones. Try the quiet girl or guy who always sits alone or is awkward with not many friends they usually turn out awesome. Then when people ask you what happened to your old friends you simply say &quot;we just didn&#x27;t work out as friends&quot; this way when they talk badly about you they sound like the awful people and you sound awesome. This will probably attract more friends too . Hope I helped!!
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