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Girls! Am I over reacting?
05-16-2014, 04:39 AM
Post: #1
Girls! Am I over reacting?
Ok so read it all not just the first couple sentences. On my girlfriends instagram page she posted a photo of Evan Peters and put the caption Unffff. <3 with the hashtag letmelovechu ok I saw that and my heart sunk a little but I just thought whatever ill let it go no reason to make a big deal out of it she probably wont ever meat him but later I was scrolling through my feed and there was like 30 comments so I was like damn whats this. I read a couple and she was talking to her friend about loving him and she said I want to love alllllll ooooffff hhimmmm. All his perfect imperfections. All his curves and edges and well it went on and I saw that and it really just hit my heart and made me really sad and wondering what is wrong with me now, I always seem to cause problems she says so I need to know am I over reacting or does it make since that this would bother me?

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05-16-2014, 04:44 AM
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your not over reacting just be alittle distant then she will know your upset and say whats wrong then just be honest and say it made you feel sad and go from there

good luck Smile

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05-16-2014, 04:46 AM
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I know you're asking girls, but I don't think my response (as a man) takes away from that.

I don't think you're overreacting to be upset about that. But confronting her isn't going to change anything. You'll just come off as annoying insecure. You'll just have grin and bear it.
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05-16-2014, 05:00 AM
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Depend on how over reacting cause everyone is different but she also needs to no she is in a relationship with u not that guy u need to talk to her calmly for she could also understand that it's hurting u
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05-16-2014, 05:08 AM
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Take it from me, I've had this happen before ... Don't let it get to you. Just don't. Don't bring it up at all. Ever. Seriously. Instagram will damage things, trust me I've had it happen before. Just don't read too far into it buddy. You'll be okay
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05-16-2014, 05:17 AM
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You are not overreacting- your just jealous. If it seriously bothers you- talk to her, see if she'll stop. Hope I helped!
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05-16-2014, 05:34 AM
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It would appear that the fact that the person that you are in a relationship with has shown a strong attraction to an actor. This attraction towards him has caused you to feel inadequate. You now question whether or not you have reasons to feel this way or if you are blowing something small out of porportion... All humans have emotions, male and female. Your reaction to this is not something so small. You have reason to feeling this way. Naturally, when with someone we love we would find no reason to post something like that about a celebrity. It is indeed imature considering that she is in a relationship with someone at present. She sounds like a wreckless lady. I would try to talk to her about this. If she is unable to compromise with how you feel then it would be for the best to end the relationship. Nothing good to come from someone that you are in a relationship to post things such as that. It is unhealthy and careless. Bad qualities in a partner, unhealthy, and very un needed. Un- everything.
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05-16-2014, 05:38 AM
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She is just being silly. That is one man that you will not have to worry about. Trust me. Move on to something else worth thinking about.
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