My relationship with my BOYFRIEND is going GREAT....and now my EX ADDED HIM ON FB!!! He knows DEEP SECRETS! :(?

[853]

My bf and I get along really well. However, I just realized my ex friended him (my ex has no idea we're dating, they went to the same hs together). I have my ex blocked on fb. But if my bf posts anything and tags me in it, my name will show up and although I have my ex blocked, he will know. He knows some DEEP SECRETS about me, stuff my bf will never know and would never forgive me for. No matter what. I need to get them off each other's friend list. I don't know their passwords. The only thing I can think of is when my bf leaves the room/or is asleep grabbing his phone and removing him but Idk if he stays logged in on fb constantly and Idk his password. It always shows the "phone" icon next to my bf's name on fb so does that mean he is constantly logged in? What would I do if I got caught? Any other suggestions?
yes he will. this is BAD. it will ruin everything

[Ryan]

Well, im a guy incase your wondering. But I wouldnt be worried about your boyfriend knowing your deepest secrets, if he is right for you he WILL forgive you. My girlfriend has done so she says "unforgivable" things but I love her and forgive her. Love requires alot of forgivness. You should get him to share some deep secrets now that he knows some of yours . Hope it goes well, good luck!

You also should just come clean with him, tell him the things you have done and if he isnt a "jackass" he will forgive you, this will relieve you of the tenssion and guilt. And the icon next to his name is always there becuse people never log off fb on their mobile device even if their not on fb.

[Calvin]

Stop overreacting

[takara]

Umm if you blocked your ex he can't see anything your tagged in.. That's the whole point of blocking someone. How about you just tell your bf that you went out with that guy and are uncomfortable with him being friends with him on fb. If he won't then maybe you should find a guy who is willing to respect what you ask of them.

[Amber]

Okay. My GOOD advice to you is to just talk to your boyfriend about it. Tell him that even though they went to HS together, you're really not comfortable with him being fb friends with your ex-boyfriend. If he asks why, just say because it brings back bad memories or something. If he's as great as you say he is, I'm sure he'll understand that and do what you ask. My BAD advice to you is, wait until he falls asleep, grab his phone, and go to the bathroom and see if he's logged in. This way if he wakes up, he won't see that you have his phone right away and he'll probably fall back asleep before you get back from the bathroom. However I must warn you, sneaking around is never a great thing to do. Best of Luck.