Not going to talk to my girlfriend for a month, what to do?

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I luv my gf sooooooo much. bt I hv got some pretty big exms coming up, they are like - they can shape my life. 1 mnth to go, n I m totally freaking out. bt dat's beside the point. What I m saying is, I hv decided nt to go out of my house fr a mnth n devote 1 whole mnth to studying. n dat naturally means I wudn't see my gf at all. Yet as bad as it is, I hv to do this as she can be a vry distracting presence (even if she's sitting silently in the room n is lost in hr own thoughts). Well she understns this. She recognises the importance of my exms n she has switched off hr phn n packed it away, so dat I dont gt distracted n keep calling hr, n so I hv packed away mine. dat puts an end to texting or whatsapp. I hv decided to deactivate my fb account, bt evrytym I deactivate my account, I keep missing hr so much dat I end up reactivating it within the next day (though dat is completely illogical as fb is by no means our sole means of communication). So this tym, she has deactivated hr account as well. So, you see, no contact fr a mnth. I realise dat 1 mnth is a vry short tym, bt dis is practically killing me (you wud hv to be in my shoes to understnd), n I m thinking dat I might nt be able to conc. at all on my studies n I need to do something fast. I know dat she must be feeling bad about this too, n I wnt to do sumthng fr hr, just b4 I disappear, to remind hr evryday, of how much I luv hr, even if I m nt der fr a mnth, to remind both of us dat it is "only" a mnth, n nt a lyftym.

[Raerae]

It is very hard to devote yourself to nothing but studying for a whole month. And let me tell you from experience that you will get burned out quickly and not retain as much information. Also, relationships are very important to be a rounded individual and if you love your girlfriend, you should at least make some time for her between the studying. If you don't, you can get extremely stressed out and frustrated to the point that you won't be able to think straight let alone study for exams. So make some time for her.