what do i do if my brother?

[MieMie]

What do I do if my brother isn't acting the way boys should act, He is so shy in public he cant even order food for his self, he wont do anything if someone insulted him, If my mom asked if for a ketchup from the restaurant he wont get cause he's scared or shy I don't really know he denies the fact that he wants something like eat or anything. But at home He burps, farts (yes, i'm being honest and that's a thing you shouldn't make fun of) Being stupid in front of our family does the same actions (burps, jumping around, etc.) He would laugh if someone said shame on u for doing this, He talks back to my mom, He's so failure at school, He balls in front of me, He laughs if I or my mom shouted at him, If its about me trying to talk to him, Oh believe me, my throat hurt so bad from long conversations with him over and over plus I have been teaching to be brave since he was 9, My mom says its my fault he's like this but I still don't get the point, HOW is it my fault? Oh and he acts so gay like he's scared of dark, insects (even if its an ant), gets disgusted easily (and that's not supposed to happen)from stuff like a hair on his laps, dirty cup he cant wash, a tissue with water < YEP I'm not exaggerating. He denies if I said all this to him, HE IS JUST USELESS, no friends, he doesn't like girls, He doesn't have an account in any social media. and he's 8th grader now, Yeah age doesn't matter because he looks tall like he's in the 10th grade. HELP asap because i'm so dun with this, My mom can't do anything anymore because she's busy and im partially taking care of my brothers other than our nanny and the 2 maids and our driver trying to deal with him he's just useless. I'd me so greatful for more help
Emma im not forcing him, Every person should be confident he is the only one who is like that in my WHOLE INTIRE family in here please understand and I need answers NOT JUDGMENT k thnx

[?]

I think you should cut him some slack, many people are very shy in public. just because you may be confidence yourself doesn&#x27;t mean you have to force other people to deal with it. probably he&#x27;s gay and just doesn&#x27;t know how to deal with it which is causing him to act this way.

[Blue SKY]

You're being to hard on your brother so give him some slack. If he was 18 or older and acting like this then I could understand your concern. But let him be himself for now, but you should mention something about his manners to him and your parents because that is something that should be corrected now.

[nochocolate]

You've already judged him as useless. And you ask for NO JUDGMENT for yourself. I suggest you let your parents or your nanny try to help him if he actually needs help.