My ex keep coming back and leaving me and now he is ignoring me?

[Pamela]

This has happen 4 times now that he leaves me and comes back in my life.everytime he comes back he always says these words ``I have been thinking about you lately and I miss you then after a while he gets distant and things fizzles out again.

anywaz,we recently reconnected a month ago and he even tell told me that he was coming to visit me (we live 4 hours apart) but then I noticed that I was the one who was always intitiating convos and most of the time he just ignored me. Then he stopped responding to me for no reason.So I started getting annoyed and I decided to call him out on it and told him that If he was going to treat me like this then forget it.I was expecting him to apologize but instead he ignored the message. It showed that he read the message on facebook and he was active so I knew he was ignoring me on I was so angry so I took him off my facebook then 2 days later I noticed he as deactivated his face book and I haven't heard from him so I am assuming his gone again.I am sad over this as we known each other for 3 years and i love him with all my heart. I know that I need to move on but I am afraid that if he contacts me I wont be able to resist him.I just need to pray to god to give me the strength to ignore him but I know I have to if he comes back in my life as I feel like these habits wont change. I just hope he wont try to come back so I can move on.I don't know how to pick up the

[Danny Boy]

You're such a damsel in distress aren't you?

[Mabe]

If a man was truly interested you he wouldn't treat you this bad. Quite the opposite, actually. He smacks of having other women that he is involved with that takes precedence over you. You are not compatible, so keep looking for that man in the mirror..

[Ath]

Don't let him back ever again. He's treating you like a spare. He only comes back when he has nobody else. Nobody should put up with that.

[Charlesworthamanda]

I wouldn't let him back in your life.I had an ex that did the same thing.Except trying to get with me behind his girlfriend's back.Or asking for sex.You're better off.Cut off all contact.He doesn't really care.It's only his convience.You're worth more than that.And deserve better.

[Ebook]

you are "afraid" you write that you cant "resist" him. why the anxiety about your deep desire for him? you like to F with him just as much as he does, that is why he keeps coming back and that is why you keep taking him back. you both enjoy that but simply cant admit you cant quit F-ing each other. if i am wrong you can tell me.

lol @ "such damsel in distress", how fitting

[Brazilian Girl!]

You need to decide is just sex with this guy enough for you?
He is not emotionally supportive and has proven to be not a serious relationship material kind of guy. Now can you enjoy just the sex? Because meanwhile you need to date other guys to find the one who will be both, great in bed but also emotionally reliable, this guy he just one to have sex with you and also he seems to lack empathy, so please decide. Some people cannot be givers they had poor parenting so they threat you like they were treated as child, hot and cold. The good news is you have the capacity to give and there are many men out there who are also givers. You need to do 'duty date' meaning date lots of guys till you find the one that you could have sexual and emotional compatibility. I am in love with someone like that, so I know what you are going through it is hard, he is awesome in bed but zero emotional support and very cold when I need him the most. Which means I feel stressed, anxious and depressed when I am trying to be connected to him.