He messaged me but then stopped responding?

[Samantha]

My ex and I got into this HUGE fight 2 months ago.
Where mean things were said on both sides and I thought he said he didn't want to be friends or whatever.
We didn't talk for 2 months.

I tried to talk to him a couple of times, but he never responded.
We play in the same soccer league on sundays, and 3 weeks ago, I saw him and tried talking to him but all he said was "sorry, can't talk"


I was blocked on Facebook.

Until yesterday, when I messaged me on Facebook, saying "you wanted to talk the other day? I'm listening…." so I responded with "hi" and he goes "that's all you have to say?"
So we were kind of texting for a little bit but he stopped responding… lol

I apologized for the arguments, and he says "apology accepted"

Why would he message me??
And then why would he not respond??? I'm so confused
Is him not responding him trying to make me not eager? Or to "play it cool"? (he was never a big texter anyways)

And when him and I were friends, there would be times where we would be in the middle of a convo and he'd stop responding

I definitely don't think he has a new girlfriend.
I want to know if him and I can talk today, in person

[Spider]

He's probably just upset about what happened between y'all two . Give It some Time

[menykats]

WHAT?? Figure it out. He blocked you on Facebook. Then he "unblocked" you and said to you (referring to the soccer game), "you wanted to talk the other day? I'm listening….". There was your chance, but the ONLY thing you could think to say back to him was "hi"? NATURALLY, he said, "that's all you have to say?"

Did you never stop to think that maybe you got HIS hopes up too, but all you had to say was "hi" -- just as if there had never been any problems between you two at all?

YOU initiated the conversation at the soccer game. He unblocked you, and asked what you wanted to say to him. Instead of taking the opportunity he was giving you and maybe work out your differences, you come back at him with a silly remark like "hi"! You BLEW it, right then! I doubt that he will give you another chance.

Get over it. He no longer wants to talk with you, and he is no longer interested in you. As I said, you had your chance and you blew it, by being silly and not taking the opportunity that was given to you.