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How to stop feeling depressed?
05-18-2014, 02:52 PM
Post: #1
How to stop feeling depressed?
I just turned 18, but feel depressed all the time about girls. I am a pretty introvert guy at first which gets hard at times and it just brings me down. I feel out of place often and just get stressed out. I try to open up and act extrovert but just feel out of place. I work and breathe with all extroverts and am bad with meeting other girls. I work at a college cafeteria on the weekends (still in high school, senior) and like this one girl at another high school shes going there next year but I have never met her before I see her all over social media but I went to school with her sister but barely knew her either. I don't know why I feel so attracted to her and she seems fairly extrovert and a big into partying which I do sometimes. I want to talk to her but i would feel socially awkward and online would feel like a creep. I am going to a different college but we will be in the same town so it's just hard cause I like my job but know I am considering quitting because it will kill me every time I see her. I try to forget and move on and focus on my own life but sometimes it just gets hard. Just looking for some suggestions because I really want to move on from this.

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05-18-2014, 03:03 PM
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Take a risk and ask her out! Better to regret something you have done than a lifetime of regretting all that you didn&#x27;t! Don&#x27;t take yourself too seriously and have fun with it. Maybe joke about the diabolical food you have to serve in the cafe. Chicks fricking love a guy who can make them laugh and it will soften the blow if she knocks you back

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05-18-2014, 03:20 PM
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http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind...611AAdZLJj
You asked this yesterday you need to do some work on your confidence and self esteem. you need to learn to be your own best friend and learn to like yourself, so that you feel you ARE worthy and someone that someone else would WANT to get to know. You don't have to have a personality transplant! Not everyone likes or wants to be around loud extroverts. Self confidence doesn't mean having to be out going and extroverted.

Stop looking at girls as unobtainable and stop telling yourself you are not good at meeting them. Think more that girls are PEOPLE, build up your confidence just talking to more people. Male and female. Just as you would have conversations with your mum or sister (who are both girls!) Its only your lack of confidence holding you back....
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