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I'm a girl and I think I'm bi-sexual..please help?
05-18-2014, 06:26 PM
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I'm a girl and I think I'm bi-sexual..please help?
Okay so I'm a 17 year old girl and I've always thought girls are pretty and I suppose I check them out but I have always thought it was in a normal way that girls do. I have never fancied a girl until recently but I can't stop thinking about this one girl. She is a friend of my best friend but since they go to a different college to me its a bit difficult to get close to her. We've only met a couple of times and have spoke on my best friends phone some too. We follow each other on instagram and twitter, I know thats stupid but at the moment that is the closest I can get to her. I always want her to notice my photos and it makes me happy when she likes every single one. I know that she is bi sexual but she has a girl friend so I can't go there with her as I wouldn't want to break up her relationship. My best friend always jokes that she doesn't want to introduce us properly because the girl will fancy me but she doesn't know that I already like her. My other best friend who doesn't know the girl I think I like has said to me before that I sound like I fancy her because I talk about her so much which I laughed off.
Me and the girl both have things in common such as liking kpop and I wonder if its a reason why I am attracted to her as I am white and I have always fancied oriental boys and she is Chinese/ Filipino mix, I think she is so beautiful.
I don't know what to do and how to get closer to her to find out how I feel or if I even should do that? Help, I feel so confused<3

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05-18-2014, 06:29 PM
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I think it is very normal to be curious. Everyone should explore their sexuality. Asking yourself if you are gay/bi/straight is part of this exploration. If you are attracted to someone of your own gender, this doesn't make you gay or bi. Even exploring sexually with someone of your own gender doesn't make you gay or bi: it makes you curious. You need to find out if this is really for you. Does it turn you on? Are you wanting to pursue further sexual relationships with people of the same gender? If so and you actively pursue such relationships, then you can come to the conclusion that you may indeed be gay or bi.If someone in college has sex with 2 or 3 people of the same gender and then determines it is not for them: I don't think they are gay or bi. I think they were curious, followed their instincts and curiosity and came to their own conclusion. Just be true and honest to yourself. Whatever society tells you, there is no shame in being gay or bi. Good luck.

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