Game Over with FB Girl?

[Frank F]

Ok, here is how it goes:


-> I added this random girl on FB on 15/5/12 and she accepted my friend request on the same day at night.


-> On 16/5/12 night, I decided to chat with her on FB. I thanked her for accepting my friend request before asking her two qns:

1) If she is staying in that area (she just replied "nope")
2) If her school is also in that area (she didn't reply to that before suddenly going offline)

I figured she might have gone to bed, so i just typed into the FB chatbox saying that she seemed like a nice person and i just wanted to know her by chatting tats all, hoping that she will see my message the next day.


-> On 17/5/12 evening, i just log into FB briefly and i was surprised to see that she replied to my question about her school location and she also said okay to my request. I didnt chat with her that night though becoz i think she wasnt online.


-> On 18/5/12 night, i log into FB and saw that she was online. I decided to chat with her briefly for about 15 min before asking for her mobile phone number. She agreed and gave it to me. But after getting her number i kinda screw it up becoz:

1) When she pickup my call i went to press the reject button (i just wanted to give her a miss call so that she can also have my number)
2) I asked her to verify my number and then she replied "huh?" (i was afraid that she might give me a fake number so i wanted her to type out my number again to verify)

After those two stupid steps above i decided leave the conversation after getting her number like what i have learnt from step 6 from this website: http://www.askmen.com/dating/player/37d_… by saying that it was nice chatting with her and that i really need to go and that i will chat with her soon. i told her goodnite and she also replied "haha ok goodnight", and i thought that she was ok with me leaving the conversation.


-> On 19/5/12 evening, i decided to call her like what i have learnt from this website: http://www.askmen.com/dating/player/38d_… but she didnt answer my call. I was a little pissed but i didnt call her back straight away. After for about 2.5 hours later, i decided to log into FB, and to my surprise she was online. I then asked her how she was doing. She replied "Ok". I then decided to talk to her about the previous night stuff:

1) I explained that i was afraid that it was a fake number so tats why i asked her to verify my number. (she didnt reply to tat)
2) I proceeded to tell her that i just called her mobile and asked if she is free to talk. (she didnt reply to tat too)
3) I then told her that we should have chatted on the phone when she picked it up the first time the previous night. I asked her if it is ok to call her now or the next day. (she didnt reply to tat too)

After she didnt reply to any of my 3 comments above, i decided to call her again for the second time, but she also didnt answer my call. I was pissed at this point but i also know that i have done some things wrong to screw up this potential relationship. I then waited for a while for her replies even though she was still online. After still no replies, i decided to log off from FB and go to bed.


-> Now is 20/5/12 and i dont know what to do next. Is it all over or can i still do some things (like calling her after a few days, continue to chat on FB etc.) to mend it up? And why is she behaving this way (Is it becoz i rejected when she picked up my call the first time, being too desperate etc.)? I need some feedbacks. Your knowledge and wisdom on this sort relationship thing is greatly appreciated. Thank you.

[Aditi]

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You don't just go adding random girls on fb looking for a fucking relationship. The reason she's acting this way? You've acted like a damn creep and she has NO interest in you. Sorry, but it's the absolute truth. You don't know her and have no right to care, or be angry at her if she doesn't give attention. Move on.