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PLEASE HELP!!! Why would my ex girlfriend send me this fb message?
05-21-2014, 02:18 AM
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PLEASE HELP!!! Why would my ex girlfriend send me this fb message?
I broke up with my ex 5 months ago. We havent spoke since. She first sent me a song message on my cell and i didnt give her my new cell number, she must have got it off of facebook... then she sent me this message on fb but she is no longer a friend of mine on fb. What are her INTENTIONS or MOTIVE. I think she's up to something, not sure what though... can you help? She sounds genuine and in trouble at the same time... maybe a crisis, maybe lonliness, maybe deception, maybe messing with me, maybe she believes she's my soulmate like she always said... i don't know. She still hasnt taken down all her lists she made of me on another website stating that in "the one"... although i dont believe in that type of thing, maybe she does. I cant firgure her out. She has a very interesting way of writing things, kind of beats around the bush, she never states what she means... she always seems to want me to figure it out. Its not too direct, and its always confusing trying to read into it...

Here's the message/


"Distinguishing dreams from reality... knowing what is real & what is not, Is the second hardest task in life. The most difficult being accepting it.
Is it possible for someone to brainwash themselves into believing the opposite of their founded reality? Because that's what I feel I have been doing to myself for a long time. Am I crazy? Do I in fact have BPD? Or have I simply been living in denial; refusing & unable to accept my own stupidity & broken dreams from the past? The last one makes the most sense (to me).
"If I am me & you are who you say you are... then I am you & you are me".
I learned a lot from you... you taught me a lot about myself. That means something to me & I hope I have done the same for you.
June 6, 2011: I took Adderall for the last time. I know that may not sound like much of an accomplishment considering I have many more issues to overcome, but I had to start somewhere."

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05-21-2014, 02:32 AM
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It sounds to me like she still wants you in her life. She's reaching out to you. I don't think she's in trouble, so I don't think you have to worry about anything there. She seems to have a lot of thoughts in her head and is trying to make sense of it all. It sounds like you're still the person she's closest to and is just trying to talk to you. If you really do want to move on, then that's fine. But you might want to send her a reply to this fb message and just say something like, "I'm sorry you're going through all that. I'm sure you will overcome your issues in time and be just fine. I wish you the best." And leave it at that. That should be clear enough that she knows you don't want to keep talking to her. If she continues to message you, then you might have to block her. Good luck!

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05-21-2014, 02:36 AM
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Maybe she's drunk. If I was in your shoes I'd send her an equally puzzling response back - like a riddle. Get something from Shakespeare or something. Then I'd ignore her responses.

It really depends whether you still have an interest in her or not. If not, play her at her own game. In fact if you do, still do it, it will be a more intriguing response than saying "what do you mean". That would play into her trap....

Good luck with it.
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