What does she want from me?

[762]

So I really liked this girl last year. We were hanging out with the same group of friends at the time and I kinda thought she might like me. I asked her out to the movies twice, she flaked out on me both times, and then started treating me different and ignoring me. So I stopped talking to her. Fast forward to about 2 months ago and she starts trying to message me on facebook, I'm nice to her and everything but I really didn't want to get my hopes up so I kind of shrugged her off a bit by not showing much interest in her conversations.
Now she's started hanging out with my group of friends again. She's been telling me she wants to hang out with me. I'm still trying to not get my hopes up so I brush her off by saying yeah sure one of these days we should, and never really setting a date. But the other day when I was giving my friends presents I brought them from a recent trip, she showed up and I had not bought her anything. So I gave her this really shitty string necklace that I had bought for a co-worker. I told her "Here I have an extra necklace, do you want it?" She seemed kind of offended that I gave her the left over present, but she still took it. And shes been wearing it ever since. Every time I see her she's wearing it, and she looks over at me a lot, but I have not commented on it at all. It's confusing for me because I still kinda feel something for her but I don't want to look like an idiot again. What do you guys think, Is this just wishful thinking from my part?

[LOSTGIRL]

I think you should give her a chance. Only fools don't change their minds. Maybe she realized she made a mistake when she stopped talking to you, maybe she had someone else in her life at that time ? I personally wouldn't wear a necklace from someone I don't have a crush on (beside close friends and family of course).

[Michael Lecompte]

Tell her that necklace is ugly and laugh at her. Girlslove the jerk.

[Fleur]

Thanks for answering my question!

Definitely sounds like she was playing hard to get at first, and was trying to get you to like her more, but then she realised that made you go off her, so she's giving you attention!
Sounds like she's really keen Xx

[Yahoo user]

Go have a piece of pizza and just treat it lightly see how it goes.

[Kit]

I think you should ask if she likes you.

[Charlotte]

Thanks for answering my question, much appreciated! It seems like seems that shes one of the type of girls who like someone, pretend not to to not seem clingy, then regrets it and goes back to flirt even more. Its the "rubber band" effect (pulls, lets go, lets it be shaky and unsure, pulls back). I tried to be like this once, and ended up making the boy feel like you do. It really doesn't help the situation. honestly, just be blunt with her and ask, other wise this is going to happen again and again.

[Anthea D]

thanku 4 helping me about the love word,why dont u go up to her and tell her how u feel?