Crushes and moving on from ex boyfriends?*long but will give everyone points*?

[Jess]

Okay so me and my ex broke up almost a month ago...2 weeks ago he got a new girlfriend, even though he apparently still has feelings for me....He is lying to her I assume since we have mutual friends we hang out and he still flirts with me ect. Hugging me. I met a boy on the weekend and we flirted and held hands and hugged a lot. I developed a little crush on him but even though my ex is even dating someone new , I felt guilty. I want to talk to my crush but feel bad about it if I do :c It also doesn't feel the same or right even though I very much like him. I want to move on but can't. my ex is trying to hide his new gf from me.I am also scared to message my crush on facebook...thinking he is just a flirt....
I don't want to be with my ex again,that isn't my point of topic.

[Curious]

its cool to move on but give your self time to get over your ex then move on.

[Julia]

You should try to move on...maybe this new guy you like is awesome to be in a relationship. your ex seemed to move on very quickly...Try out this new guy! see what happens(: I wish you best of luck!

[Desiree]

If you're looking to truly get over your ex, the last thing you want is a rebound guy. It will only remind you of how much you miss your ex and make it nearly impossible to enjoy the relationship for what it is.
Also, if he's in a relationship, that's automatically off-limits. Be respectful of him and his girlfriend by not being involved. If you do get involved, he wins and you and the other girl both lose.